Wow, okay my roommate is starting to be the biggest deusch known to man. First of all he is almost 2 years younger than me. Secondly he continually acts like he is the center of the fcking world. Apparently everything i do is wrong and everything he does is right. Consider over the past weekend the earliest he woke up was fcking 6 at night. The number of times he exited the apartment was less than 3. I myself am probably more of the quiet type, I like to have but I also like to be by myself some as well. Im trying to coexist with this mf and not fcking erupt at him. I have told him many times that I have 3 classes on monday and 2 on tuesday but he never fails to fcking ask me : "How many classes do you have today." He will randomly walk by my room because I dont have a laptop and ask me if im having fun. I feel sort of like he is attempting to control me, for example if I am about to go to the library, I know that if I tell him im going he will say something fcked up. AHHHHH
2006-10-09 03:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I need help on how to get some fcking peave of mind. How do I coexist with a person like this. I give respect to almost everyone, and in return never get any respect. WTF is up with that
2006-10-09 03:38:18 · update #1
Sorry, I saw nothing in your ramblings that really made him out to be a bad roommate. Why do you care when he gets up in the morning (or at night?) Why do you care how often he leaves the apartment? Why do you expect him to memorize youyr schedule? Post it on the fridge, and he won't have to ask you anymore.
I suggest going to class, studying at the library and staying away from the apartment when you can to avoid him.
I'm sorry, but unless he is stealing from you, eating all your food, leaving dirty dishes in the sink, spooge in the shower and playing loud music when you are trying to sleep or study - this doens't sound like a big deal and YOU need to take a chill pill.
2006-10-09 03:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a different place to live or a different roommate. If you can't do either of those things then maybe you can just let him know how you feel in a calm way and try to come to a compromise. Ask him to not interrupt you when you are studying. Post up a calendar with your classes on it and hang it where he can see it. Good luck.
2006-10-09 03:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you on campus? if so, maybe you can talk to the person in charge of housing. let them know that your roomate is unbearable to you and see if you can may a request for a different roomate so one of you can be moved.
If you are in an apt. or house together, is he keeping up his side of the bills, if not, then this is the perfect way to get him out. if both of your names are on the lease or rental agreement, then talk to the person in charge and let them know that you are wanting to give him a 30 (required) notice to get out. start searching for someone else in the meantime, put an ad in the local or school paper and conduct interviews for a new roomate.
HOWEVER, if he's holding up his end of the rent and bills and taking care of his responsibilities, maybe you just need to find someone that you can get along with. bc it seems if he's holding up his end you just need to chill and let him live as he pleases. he's human too
2006-10-09 03:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend. You have to cut the rent on him Who is the landlord you or him. Otherwise lock to room get some heavys over to sit in your room and maybe play with his mind. Intimidation workes otherwise move out buddy. This guy has already won if I look at how you posed your question. Good luck my friend.
2006-10-09 03:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him how you feel. If he doesn't comply start being an a$$ towards him. If you can't deal with it anymore start looking for someone to replace you as his roommate.
2006-10-09 03:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Lex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋