mood swing toward me and the kids easily?arguing toward me?she has said we need time apart?gone off sex with me?
never spend time as family?alway round her mates?started smoking/drinking when with her friend ?
2006-10-09 03:23:59 · 7 answers · asked by simon_johnstone_1 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
sorry to hear your girlfriend is having such a hard time right now- it does sound like she is going through something right now. It could be depression or maybe just sowing some wild oats, so to say.The best advise I could give you is to try to talk to her calmly about the concerns oyu have- or maybe tlak with some of her friends/family, and let them know you are concerned about her, and see if they can also help talk to her and figure out whats oging on. Good luck.
2006-10-09 03:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear ur going through this but take an honest look did you have kids young are they of a certain age now that they don't need constant attention that someone else can do. She's peed off with what she's done with her life- is it a friend or friends she's always with? How do the kids feel, do they ask after her? were you the one who was always out when the kids were really small? Get someone to look after the kids sit down talk and lay all your cards feelings on the table-honesty, feelings, this may take more than 1 night so don't cram everything in thinking kids'll be home soon have to say something Talk or write a list of 4 or 5 things each have this limit (4 now) so 1 of your lists isn't endless there's other weekends, if she's more interested in going out then there's worse to come- deeper issues
2006-10-09 16:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female and in a relationship. I'm going through depression at the moment and have the same symptoms you girlfriend seems to be experiencing.
what i suggest is that you talk to her first about it and let her know your there for her despite the mood swings etc. knowing my partner is there for me helped me alot.
If this doesn't work see if she wants to see a doctor that can help.
i started going out and having a great time with my friends to take my mind off the depression, so please don't think she is doing this because of you.
2006-10-09 11:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male or female - behaviours like this say something is wrong. Even though I'm female, I personally would be very suspicious if she seems happy enough when in her friends' company. You don't say how old she is - if quite young - it could be a rebellion about beeing tied down so young. I'm not saying you are to blame in any way, I'm not saying you're not - I am saying she is reacting very strongly and there must be a reason or reasons why. As others have advised - have you tried to speak with her or others in her family that might be able to speak with her? Has anyone else noticed this behaviour and behaviour pattern change - what are their thoughts? Could you get her to go with you to Relate or some other form of couselling. For the sake of the children, even if not for you or herself, she needs to seek out help to help her sort herself out. What about visiting your GP together, or speaking with the practice nurse together? (You can, if she won't go, speak with them yourself about your concerns, just remember that confidentiality means they won't discuss her medical health issues with you - even though you're her partner/husband. But they might be able to advise how you might try to cope better. The fact that children are also in this situation may make them be more helpful).
Wish you well.
2006-10-09 10:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sounds like it is she letting her self go too ?? i would get the Dr out to have a look at her
2006-10-09 18:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question, but i dont think you should look for the answer on yahoo, ask yourself that question good luck!
2006-10-11 05:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her?
2006-10-09 10:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by reddragon105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋