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ok.. where do i start.. well i met thiis guy at work about 2 months ago... he was funny and a total bad ***.. him and i have been having an affair for the last month or so... well the other night while we were having sex he told me he loved me... shocked as i was.. i didnt say anything... a few days later he said it agian and i replied i love you too.. (i didnt.. but i do have strong feelings for him...) now he is talking about me leaving my husband and us getting married and i dont know what to do.... the funny thing is... he is the last person i could imagine getting attached like this... he seemed to be like a hit it and quit it kind of guy... i need help???

2006-10-09 02:41:57 · 6 answers · asked by our scars remind us... 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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why go on with the relationship? besides you are already married and you say you do not love this guy. In fact, you didnt even have to ask this question cuz your words have all the answers....

2006-10-09 02:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0 0

I wouldn't worry about him being a clinger... at this point..
I would worry about you being a cheater.......
What were you thinking????
Sometimes married girls are a challenge for single guys and it is fun trying to seduce them.......confuse them... use them... then drop them.. once you are totally confused about your life....I would be worried about whether I still loved my husband and he loved me... Do you know if he is a cheat like you????
Once a cheat, always a cheat... you are probably not the first girl this man has had....
Get over yourself, get to some counselling...try to mend or end your relationship in your marriage.
Where are your morals?????Did the vow 'til death do us part'
mean nothing....
If you don't want marriage, end it first before you go and act out sexually with someone else..

2006-10-09 03:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1 0

The first thing you have to do is tell your husband so you can both get checked for STDs.

Then it will be up to you both to decide whether to continue to be married. You obviously don't want the stud for the long term.

2006-10-09 03:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kanuk Komputers 3 · 1 0

You should"nt have told him you love him when you dont, Your going to have to talk to himand tell him your not ready for that or if you never want to tell him it can only be sex nothing more, but now he also might tell your hubby about it to get you away from hubby, make shure he understands all you wanted was sex.

2006-10-09 02:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0 0

you shouldn't be having sex with him (or anyone) while you're still with your husband. i think the guy saying he loves you and you lying to him by saying you love him too is the least of your worries.

2006-10-09 02:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You made your bed now lay in it... you shouldnt of cheated on your husband in the first place...

2006-10-09 02:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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