Is it normal to feel numb in the arms when a woman has sex for the first time? And, must she bleed during her first time?
2006-10-09 01:39:11 · 6 answers · asked by gummy 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, I just had sex for the first time, but I didn't bleed.
2006-10-09 01:52:35 · update #1
Not everyone bleeds. No big deal. The hymen can stretch without bleeding, and can be stretch due to vigourous exercise, etc. LOTS of people don't bleed.
Don't know about the arm numbness. Maybe you just were really enjoying it, or alternatively, were very nervous.
2006-10-09 01:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by P-nuts and Hair-dos 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women do bleed the first time they have sex and is normally nothing to worry about if it is only a little blood and doesn't carry on for any length of time. If you are unsure about the bleeding or if you bleed when you have sex after the first time then you should go to the doctor.
Your arms can become numb if you are lying in an awkward position or if your boyfriends weight is on them and cuts of the circulation - it normally just means its time to change position.
2006-10-09 08:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The arm numbness is probably positional.
Historically, a woman was not considered a virgin unless there was blood on the honeymoon sheets. Divorce, shame and even death could result if bloodied sheets could not be offered as proof of her virtue. Some families would pay servants high bribes to put animal blood on the sheets if needed or time the honeymoon during her period.
Back on point - she should bleed the first time. This is not a popular statement though as there are plenty of folks who are pulling the wool over someone's eyes or have had the wool pulled over their eyes. But does virginity really matter? If you love them, it shouldn't matter. If you are a religious nut, you should forgive their past sins.
2006-10-09 08:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal, i myself experienced it...and there can be bleeding...but i dont think all women do...it depends on if the woman had a hymen or not ... if she did when it breaks you may see some bleedingbut if not you have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-09 08:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by Pepperpaige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't but then again we are different beings that experience different reactions to the same situations.
2006-10-10 01:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nessacerily, the frist time,... but not long after the Hymen will break...!
2006-10-09 08:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by FrogZ...! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋