2006-10-09 01:35:40 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
That all depends upon how lonely you are... And did you ever see the Movie "Cast Away" with Tom Hanks? Such a realistic, very touching movie! I'm just so surprised it didn't get very high ratings... This man found a soccer ball, to keep company with..and that soccer ball, kept him from going "Crazy", he even imagined it talking to him.. This is what lonliness, will do to you.. When his soccer ball drifted off of the raft, he cried and cried, and kept yelling "I'm sorry Wilson, I'm sorry Wilson, as he cried!" Thats simply because, Wilson the soccer ball, was his only refuge, his only source of communication with the world as he knew it on this island.. He acquired a "Bond" and a love, for Wilson, because, his human instincts, had to attach himself, with something, since there, were no human beings on the island..So, yes it is easy to fall in love.. If you find the right person to "Trust" that you know isn't going to be devious, or appears, that they may have skeletons in their closets... Someone, you can put all your trust into, is the one, you could very easily "Fall in Love" with. Someone, who you know you can safely let your guard down with.. If you dont feel either of those with that special someone, than their not the person, you'd want to give much of your heart away too. Because, otherwise, your heart is theirs, to do whatever it is they want to do with .. Like break it, if your too vulnerable.. I got my heart broken once, for falling for the wrong man, and now I always have my guard up, in fact so much that I'm not even dating anymore, at all...Thats how badly my Pickins' are... But, I blaim that on my father..for never guiding me, he always would tell me, my ex-husband was toxic, but, yet my ex, was alot like my father, who was always gone, growing-up.. So, subconsciously, I pick men who are a tad on the "Rebellious side" of life, because, my dad was, thats all I saw when he was around, so I pick guys who are like dad, because of my fathers absense.. So, my advice, to you,would be, to always date awhile, before you give your heart fully or completely to one woman...Court her, before you sleep with her, see if there's things you have in common, see if she has any skeletons in her closet, or if she's on the rebound, find out everything there is to find out about her, before you give up your heart to her, and God forbid, dont, give up your sense of "self" for no one!! Always, keep control of "Your-time", just for you, so you can always be renewed, revived, and ready to rejuvenate enough to keep up with the whole relationship thing.. Relationships, take work... And in order to be able to keep working at keeping it "Alive" you always have to have "Me-time" alone, away, so you can get a better perspective, on things from a distance..If she's clingy, and doesn't give you, "Me-time", then you'll lose yourself, in the process, if you dont break it off.. She'll sufficate you, to the point of not knowing who you are, anymore, and thats not healthy!! Thats why I devorced my last husband, he was totally "Obsessed" with me, he sufficated, abused, and controlled my every move!!! Not healthy at all !! And I now have an "Order of Protection" against him,, so be very, very ,careful ! Sorry, for writing a book on ya'!! OOPS! Smile!
2006-10-09 03:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to fall in love with a kitten or a puppy but with a person it takes a little more work because you need to see the true person for what they really are and make sure you can fall and stay in love with that person for the rest of your life. I have been in love for 23 years and counting!
2006-10-09 01:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There R many forms of LOVE. The LOVE towards parents,Relatives,Friends..... But most of all the LOVE towards an opposite sex is completely a Romantic illusion. It's isn't how U LOVE them but it is that whether it is a true LOVE or the one U LOVE is the correct one for U. It's all in UR view, anyway if U fall in LOVe make sure that it's true. And it's easy 2 fall in LOVe ,but it's upto our mind 2 choose the right one!!! Good Luck.This is just my experience about LOVE.
2006-10-09 01:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by DineshTKJames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not easy to fall in love, some times you fall in love with wrong person, so, the second time when you are going to love someone, your choice will be more accurate and think mentally way cause you have experience
2006-10-09 01:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweetshima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it depends on what your definition of love is. Sometimes most people think love is wanting to sleep with someone because of their physical attributes. And that's really not love. Then there's people who really do fall in love with the inner person but that person is not the right person and that love kind of disappears. Either because you've been rejected or because your eyes see a person with better physical attributes. Yeah, as long as you've got an idea of the definition of love you want, that's really what affects the fascility of falling into it. Does that make sense???
2006-10-10 20:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love is easy to fall into, like a trap planted on your feet while you are taking a poop.
Real love, agape, is a state that is hard to fall into.
Love is when you do not reject anything about that person.
or
Love is when you accept everything about that person.
or
Love is when you embrace that person.
There are many things that look like love, but love that is unconditional is something that is as easy as opening your heart to the correct being, it takes faith.
2006-10-09 02:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by lkraie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hunn...well i think there is nothing like falling in love..the guy sees a gal USUALLY ( or the gal sees a guy RARELY) and falls in "so called" love...its nothing but just an infatuation i think...to really start loving a person, u need to understand him/her very well and tht requires time....if the boy and the gal are in contact for a long time, then there is the possibility tht they will start loving each other.
Falling in INFATUATION is very easy, but not in REAL LOVE.
2006-10-09 01:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, this very easy. Any fool person can fall in love, Like u
2006-10-09 01:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Suresh Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a deep philosophical question that has hounded mankind for eons.
Having researched it for years, prayed about it, seen the Oracle at Delphi and discussed it, talked with Merlin and many more, it is obvious that you climb into love. The proof lies in what happens when love disappears from your life for a short time, "you fell out of love." So you climb into love and fall out.
2006-10-09 01:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Polyhistor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible to fall in love with anyone if both people are willing to work to keep the relationship going. Love is a very complicated thing and too many people believe they are in love when they are really not. Love is the greatest thing and once it has befallen you, do not waste its precious gift.
2006-10-09 04:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 've fallen in love many years ago. I have broken my heard, I' ve lost my life, I've been ruined.
I have sworn not to do that never again.
For 16 years, I managed that. Sometimes it was difficult, because it's easy to fall in love.
Now, I can not ! I'm falling in love again and it was so easy...and so beautiful...
2006-10-09 05:12:12 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋