i luv a guy so does he... his mom also likes me...........but my mom is not interested.....my mom says that he is not fit 4 me...and its a sin.......he is curetly studying 4 ca.......so am i.........v both r same age,,,,i really do luv him and so he.....but shud i obey my mom...and cheat my lover...........gud advice is needed.........
2006-10-09 00:49:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
time never remains same.
give your mother some time,, right now both of u you and your lover, are studying it means that marrige won't be on your list right now.
Ask your lover to achieve and develop all the possible qualities in him (including a trustworthy and stable career) which will later let your mother to give a second thought on the opinion she has right now...
Even you try harder to help him out to get to those preset targets..
Always remember that our parents are not stubborns, when it comes on them to decide on their children's future i.e on us,,, they try to look at every possible aspect of life, since they themselves have experienced more of it than us.. their decisions can be harsh but are usually practical,,,, rest is your luck..
So BEST OF LUCK honey....!!!!
hope you get the best along with God's blessing and your parents willingness..
2006-10-09 01:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur mum whether it was a sin when she made love to your father? It's ridiculous, depending on how old u are I would say go with ur feelings but always be aware, and careful. Let ur mum know u respect her but you would be disrespecting yourself if u ignored the way u felt about someone, Love is no sin, it's is one of the better things in life, nobody can change ur feelings, and unless ur mother has any information on this guy that would not make him appropriate, u need to sit down with her and really explain.
2006-10-09 07:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love a person is not a sin, NOT AT ALL. Prove it to ur mom dat he is the one fit for you and show her that you love him a lot, stand by him and help him out to get your mom convinced. hey after all she's your mom how long will she keep denying him??? she has to agree someday...
but if you really really love him then stand by him at all time...
2006-10-09 08:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by soniye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...it's not a soluation. If u cheat him then u will need to cheat again n again in ur whole life. it's not a good way to run away from prob. Be confidance on ur love n try to convince ur mum.
2006-10-09 08:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by neplizheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and try to show your mom that you love the guy and that she doesnt choose who you fall in love with because it is your future at the end of the day. however, try to show some respect in the process.
2006-10-09 07:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by ntu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're old enough to write in English (and spell better)... you'll be old enough to understand what the word "love" is all about.
2006-10-09 07:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.....if you dont what would happen later in life when your mom was gone and you ended up with a jerk because you didnt follow your heart in the first place....go for it
2006-10-09 08:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!!!!!!!!
follow ur heart there lies ur happiness
ur mom is sick if he tells u leave ur love
each motehr asks their daughter to have love in life nad urs telling u to leave him!!!
ur mom is sick get her to the hospital quick, Quick, QUIck, QUICK~!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-09 08:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never
2006-10-09 07:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it isn't
2006-10-09 08:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋