2006-10-09 00:42:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes and no. you know the answer better than all of us that answers you cause you are the who has been through the relationship and not us. you weight all the points through the relationship and determine if it's the best to be together again or not, not us doing it.
2006-10-09 09:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probbaly no the most natural thing to go backwards in ur love life, I did it, didn't work, but I've known some people to break up then get back together and be married by the next year. If you still have core problems then it's gonna end up the same, but more bitter. Very often time will heal and having no contact with that person wll make u realise u can live happily without them...
2006-10-09 07:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really depends on the love there was. It has happened in past that two people that were in love by who knows what coincidence have met again (may-be both divorced or widowed) and feel the same like they did in the past. There are couples that break up and this does not mean that they don't love each anymore. At times we meet the right person at the wrong time: ex: He or she is too young and still wants to have other experiences,traveling with friends parties etc.... There are thousands of reasons why people break up but as I have said it does not always mean you don't love that person.
Take it easy and if it is the real love of your life, go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-09 07:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by marque1717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly is - under different circumstances.
I know loads of ppl that split, married other ppl, got divorced, and got back with their 1st partner.
You never can tell whats around the corner. I would suggest if you wanna get back with the person you maintain contact - dont be too pushy though, it could also be that he/she wants to move off with someone else - I'm sorry to say it could end up being a case of seeing how things go.
I hope it works out as you want though - Good Luck
Wishes n Dreams XxX
2006-10-09 07:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is, but if you get back together without figuring out the issue(s) that drove you apart in the first place, then history will repeat itself. It's hard to do, but think as logically as you can.
If the issue really is impossible to get through, you are then setting yourself up for a lot of pain.
BTW: Don't ever, ever expect him/her to change. He might, but your job is to worry about yourself. It's amazing how many people will naturally start meeting your needs when you consistently focus on theirs.
Read the book "The Five Love Languages"--it is fun to read-there is a quiz that is really professional--and it offers a list of ways to meet the needs of each of the five "love styles".
2006-10-09 07:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it REALLY depends on why they broke up in the first place! Sometimes, if they actually DID get back together, it might take all of five minutes before they slap their heads, like in a V8 moment, and say "THAT'S why we split!!!"
I know that, because it happened to me!!
Human nature tends to only remember the "good" things. Reality can sometimes rattle our cages so we see the truth.
2006-10-09 07:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by CURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it is possible. Two people can become one again as friends or as lover, but for that there has to be complete understanding, trust and full faith in that person, cause these three are important to hold up a strong and sucessful relationship. im sayin this through personal experiance.
2006-10-09 07:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by soniye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is never a no to the question of love Hun you hang in there OK you can always try i just broke up with my ex boyfriend i miss him so much but i guess hoping wont do anything you should speck with the other person you never know what could happen
gud luck xoxo
2006-10-09 07:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Caitlin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffo, i dumped my boyfriend at 19 then married someone else. I dreamt constantly of my ex and wished i had married him. 10 years later we met through friends reunited after a messy divorce from my then husband and we are now married with a baby and it is fantastic. good luck
2006-10-09 08:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens all the time. my daughter is now seeing a man she broke up with a few years ago. they are very happy and feel that it will work better this time.
2006-10-09 07:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by nana_bad_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋