2006-10-09 00:15:13 · 18 answers · asked by happiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get your own man..Unless you have pleasure for other woman's misery
2006-10-09 00:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by TheWillBe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you planning on doing with a married man? You think he'll be there on your birthday? At Christmas? For Thanksgiving? For family reunions?
Do you think this married man will divorce his wife to be with you?
Have you had the thought that if he cheats on his wife to be with you that he'll cheat on you to be with some one else?
All of these things should be considered when you think this situation through. But most of all, think of your child!!
If you don't like your boyfriend, kick him out and get on with life, you'll happier in the long run. And if you want more misery in your life, then start seeing the married man and you'll have it.
This isn't meant to sound mean, but you need to open your eyes to the facts before you jump in with both feet and make a huge mistake.
2006-10-09 07:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where your boyfriend is concerned it may be best for you both if you finish the relationship - if your not happy with him it could lead to you both being stuck with each other and being unhappy, this could also have an effect on the child.
With regards the married man would be playing with fire if you started anything with him - he will either be devoted to his wife and if you try anything it will cost you your friendship or he'll have a fling with you - which will cause you no end on heartache.
Best to move on and find someone just for you - he'll be out there if you look for him - Good Luck
Wishes n Dreams Xxx
2006-10-09 07:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats messed up already...drop them both and start over. If someone isn't caring enough you need to leave and find someone that is. If a man is married you need to turn around and walk away. If he's married and interested in someone else imagine what your level of trust would be for him if you ever got together. I say Run like hell and start over,.....Im single ;)
2006-10-09 07:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by blu_222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre unhappy with your partner its simple leave him as if youre thinking of another you dont love this man anyway.
But dont jump out of the fire into the frying pan and involve yourself with a married man. That is just plain asking for double trouble, hes someone elses husband and probably just looking for a fling anyway. finish what is already bad with your bf first. Then when that is all said and done, start looking for someone else .
2006-10-09 07:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god, what a mess. Time to use the credit card and book some time out on holiday by yourself and figure what you are going to do. Don't wreck this other blokes marriage; that's just not fair. Do leave your current boyfriend if you really feel he's not caring enough for you - otherwise your not being true to him (or you!)
2006-10-09 07:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he isnt caring enough u should do whats best for you an ur kid. an as for being in love with a married man , does he know? is he in love with u ? does he want to leave his wife for u if so u should go with what u feel is right
2006-10-09 07:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the married man alone. Put yourself in his wifes shoes and walk a mile. As far as the man with the kid, if you stick w/ him be prepared to be a instant mom.
2006-10-09 07:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror. Ask yourself who you are really staring at. Is this the person you want to see looking back at you or would you rather see an emancipated, thoughtful, caring real woman?
There is your answer.
2006-10-09 08:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need too sit down and talk too your boyfriend tell him how your feeling you may be able too work things out hon stay away from married man they are bad news there will be so many broken hearts big mistake ......sorry ...
2006-10-09 08:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about y ur boyfren isnt carin enuf mayb u push him in dat direction from the sound of it init?
2006-10-09 07:32:24 · answer #11 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋