I have recently met a girl whom I really like.We are both in a relationship with men (I, a boyfriend, she, a husband). She divulged that she *used* to be lesbian. Do you think this was a hint for me, and if so, how do I persue her?
(BTW, my mate I and have an understanding towards my having relationships with females, so this poses no problem).
2006-10-08 23:09:43 · 11 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd call that a hint. Invite her over for drinks and see where it goes.
If your respective male partners do not have a problem with it, then it is nobody's business but your own!!!
2006-10-09 03:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may have been hitting on you. I;m with you, i don't know if i would know when a was being hit on by a girl...i'm also in a straight relationship...but am recently figuring out that i'm prolly bi curious...my man knows i find woemn attractive..but i don't think he knows to what extent exactly. He's great and i love him...but i'm not sure how to broach the subject with him. I haven't been faced with the opportunity to be with a women yet, but if ever i was i would want to go for it...especially if i really liked her. Can you email me and tell me how this understanding works between you and your man?? thanks tigerlily check profile for address
2006-10-09 02:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i became in that difficulty as quickly as, yet no ladies approached me and tried to test with me. the only female I knew that became additionally into ladies became my superb pal who's now my gf. There might have been somebody that i became unaware of that needed to test with me, yet while somebody did suggestions-set me and attempt i could have rejected her. extremely some human beings have been intimidated of me throughout extreme college by way of fact I broke extremely some hearts, had an extremely tight knit team of acquaintances, and became the valedictorian, so i does not be shocked if this is why i did not get any can provide.
2016-11-27 02:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by kirtiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like an invitation to me. But double check with your boyfriend that he really is okay with it, some say that they are when they end up not being okay with it, cheating is still cheating, no matter what the gender is of the person that you're cheating with.
2006-10-08 23:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by kittycat_cc14 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do know that homosexuality is abnormal behavior don't you?
I think you're being very selfish to even think of doing this terrible thing to that other woman. She has struggled to over come this perversion and you want to drag her back down into it. Do yourself and her a favor and LEAVE HER ALONE. She's married and normal don't ruin her life with your sickness.
2006-10-09 01:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by giri 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes that's definitely an invitation.
And it's your life, no one else's. By all means talk it over with your BF, but in the end, it's your decision, no one else's.
2006-10-09 02:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!
it's more than a hint.
it's an invitation already.
but beware of the complications of cheating.
so, you better ask your respective partners first.
lol
2006-10-08 23:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a husband then that says it all. She is taken. Tell her to contact you again when she is single.
2006-10-09 02:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's hinting, and probably just being her friend will do it.
2006-10-09 03:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know that homosexuality is abnormal behavior don't you?
I think you're being very selfish to even think of doing this terrible thing to that other woman. She has struggled to over come this perversion and you want to drag her back down into it. Do yourself and her a favor and LEAVE HER ALONE. She's married and normal don't ruin her life with your sickness.
2006-10-08 23:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by N3WJL 5 · 0⤊ 7⤋