alot of people say that lesbians are unfaithful but a friend of mine is a lesbian and i've had a crush on her for awhile but she has a girlfriend. i like everything about her what shall i do? she knows i like her but i dont know what to do? i talk to her alot and when i do i'm very excited and i practically think about her all day. lately i've been having dreams of her making a move on me but in reality she's not. by the way i am a female as well. help please.
2006-10-08 22:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by mcgee01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should not get involved with someone who is already in a relationship. That is cruel and wrong.
2006-10-11 09:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously I'm not a lesbian, but I don't see much difference from your situation to a guy who is in love with a girl if she is already attached to another man.
I'm sorry to say so, but you can't force somebody to love you. It seems to me that you did the right thing as this lady is already aware of your feelings for her. As long as she is still attached I can only recommend you to leave it as it is. Of course there is nothing wrong with keeping an eye on the situation and try again once she breakes up with her present lover.
2006-10-08 22:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian and i can only tell you to go with your heart. You will always wonder if you dont make the move and it will put alot of strain on your life. Talk to her babe, you never know she might just feel the same. x
2006-10-08 23:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a lesbian but my girlfriend is and i have known her for about 5 years as a friend before we went out and she has never been unfaithful in the past relationships before me ^_^
2006-10-08 22:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by danadooberry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you can find more answers on the society and culture > lesbian, gays, transgender part of yahoo! answers. i'm not a lesbian but i think if you have feelings for your friend maybe you should tell her, if you want it get out on your chest. don't tell her until you're ready. however, you should think if it will be good to your friendship or not.
good luck.
2006-10-08 22:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋