..that my friend is extremly upset with me. He said that he was so mad at me (for being rude) he couldn't bring himself to say happy birthday to me and he would rather be around other people. So I sent him an apology letter saying I had been going through a rough time(which is true) and I was sorry beucase I did not mean to intentionaly rude. I kissed his *** in that letter. He repled saying that the one time I had a beef with him all he was doing is trying to be a good friend and if I was questioning that then I am selfish and He wishes the best for me but dosent think that being freinds will work out.
Obviously I am sorry and trying to make an attempt to make things better but hes rejecting them. What should I do? I am pretty bummed.
2006-10-08 20:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Dex's Gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What I did apparently:
I ignored him
Said smart-***/rude comments
2006-10-08 20:29:14 · update #1
Don't waste your time on this guy. Who cares, he has his panties in a wad over something stupid. You tried to make amends and he can't get over it so . . . his loss.
2006-10-08 20:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Payne 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes people go their seperate ways. Maybe he just decided that being friends would be difficult. Guy and girl friendships don't usually work out. Guys grow up and develope feelings and what not. Girls grow up too and get their feelings and hormones. The two feelings and hormones that girls and guys develope don't go together as just friends.
Anyway, just don't get on his case about anything. Just wait out some time and eventually you guys will start talking again. That's the best advice anyone could ever give you. You wouldn't want to bother him and make him not wanna be your friend even more would you?
2006-10-09 09:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by MOTHERRR SOUP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bummer! He obviously needs more practice on forgiving! Let him practice on that while you move on! Maybe he will come back (as a friend) and tell you HE'S sorry for rejecting you and HE will say sorry! That would be so cool and I hope it works like that for you!
2006-10-09 03:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he was a real friend then he would know that friends go through thinks, have fights and argurments...but the friendship is more important so obviously he is not a true nor real friend. girl move on and find some more friends
2006-10-09 03:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by kris_robinson_7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have done everything that could reasonably be expected of you to apologize to this guy. If he doesn't wish to accept your apology, that is his decision. I think he is being petty but, hey, I don't know what you did.
2006-10-09 03:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An apology letter? I didn't know people still did that. I thought it went out in the 50's
2006-10-09 03:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
**** happens. U tried let him come to you.
2006-10-09 03:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋