We broke up cause he was not there for me anymore, I told him that i needed some attention. He didnt change so i broke up with him. Now he wants to b back togethere he said "people dont know what they have untill its gone." He has changed a lot now we are talking like friends he spoils me a lot but i dont feel it so good. Tonight we went to the movies with some frends n i felt really bad cause i wasnt with him. he says im the one that cares for him and that he didnt appreciate me now he regrets it a lot. He really wants me back and i think he is honest, he says that im the only one that has shoned him that i care for him. WHAT DO I DO??????????????
2006-10-08 20:14:26 · 10 answers · asked by cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ultimate choice is yours. You are the better judge of your own. Before deciding to go, think twice why you had broken earlier,
my suggestion: better if you choose any other option,
2006-10-08 20:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that story before a hundred times.....if a break-up happens, it'[s for a good reason. You can't MAKE people love you, it happens on its own with respect, honor and patience by both sides. Real love starts and never ends....because if it does, then it wasn't real to begin with and you'll always have that in the back of your mind.....with time, if you go back with him, chances are he'll lose his shine again. I just hope that you both aren't living together either because often monetary committments (rent, paying bills, etc..) is an extra incentive to come back again.
Be strong and live for love. Don't waste your life with people who don't know what they want. Be honorable and intelligent in all of your works, it'll pay off big time in the end.
Good day.
2006-10-08 20:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are things going to change now? you are in a comfort zone neither of you wants to be alone and starting over takes time. if you were truly unhappy why would anyone do that to them selves again? if he's losing his appreciation now how about a year from now? and you will start the heartbreak all over again put the past behind you find happiness and don't look back he sounds a little controlling anyway and that always ends badly good luck also it sounds like he is buying you back!!!!
2006-10-08 20:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by i can help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not if you really care about him and your thinking of him when he's not there he's showing you by proving he cares for you and he' admits he misses you. Maybe he really is sincere. Give hima chance and watch how he treats you.. you will know sooner or later and if he goes back to his old ways you have your answer and don't go back a 3rd time if he gives you the same cock and bull story.
2006-10-08 21:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with that.. If you still love him, then give him another chance...
The more importance is he realized his mistakes and he is trying to make up with you..
Remember Love is sweetier at the second time around, especially if you both know each other faults..
2006-10-08 20:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bet that if you got back together that with-in about a month things will be back the way they were before......
2006-10-08 20:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If he lets you down again then leave him. Simple as that.
2006-10-08 20:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK! THINK! THINK! MAKE SURE THAT IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT IF HE HURTS YOU AGAIN! SO I SAY THINK! THINK! THINK! AND TAKE YOUR TIME AS LONG AS YOU NEED IT. IF HE REALLY WANTS YOU BACK HE CAN WAIT AS LONG AS NEEDED. THINK! THINK! THINK!
2006-10-08 20:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get together again....
trust me he has changed; I know it.
2006-10-08 20:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so lucky to have that true love from him
2006-10-08 20:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋