I have been looking girl for last eight months at the bus stop & and she also looks at me. Once, I talked with her, first I asked to her that what she is doing then she told me that job at ansal plaza. Then I asked at which post then she said why you are taking information. Then I said if you are not interested to tell something about yourself then it is ok, I think you are considering me like bad boys then she said “not at all”. Then after some time, she asked about myself (I think she realized that she is considering me wrong) that what are you doing then I told her about me. Then I paid the money to auto, she I’ll give you it tomorrow. Then from the next day she didn’t start talk with me. Like before, she looks at me. I love that girl now I want to know that whether she had interest in me or not. If yes then what should I do to get her love and if no then tell me that how I can get her love. I love her too much. I can’t live without her.Plz tell me what to do now
2006-10-08 20:09:17 · 8 answers · asked by naren_cool_29091987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are not in love considering that you really don't know the lady. You are very attracted to her and you have a crush on what you see. What is inside may be nice too, or it may not. She might have liked what she heard and is waiting for you to make the next move. She might not be too, perhaps some little thing you said was something that she does not have an interest in or dislikes. Maybe she just does not have the money to pay you back right now so she is embarrassed and keeping her distance. I would go talk to her and tell her that you enjoyed helping her out and would like to get the chance to know her a little better. Ask her if she would be agreeable to that and tell her if she has no interest in you, not to say yes just because she owes you some money. Tell her to only say yes if she thinks you and her could be friends. It is possible she already has a boyfriend--or that she has and won't have much longer, then you could step up from friend to boyfriend. See what she says when you ask if she would like to go out and to be friends. If she says no, then start asking other pretty ladies until you find the one you are meant to be with. That will be the one you don't want to live without but can live without if need be. The socialogists claim there are many matches right for every person and I imagine that is why during the dating years when we find out which ones are not right, we graduate to picking the same type of person again and again when we find one that is right who it does not work out with. There will be THE one who it will work out with. Before that time comes we will pick alot of lemons in the garden of love before we find a peach. Also, please do not tell her that you love her because you may scare her off by saying that too soon. That is something you want to keep to yourself for quite awhile until you figure she loves you too. There is no way to make anyone love you who does not know you. First of all you have to get to know eachother and then you still don't make someone love you except if you are the type of person the other person would be inclined to love. The only way to find out is to date for awhile and be yourself when you are dating. If you try to be like anyone else it may work for awhile but eventually you will let your guard down, be seen as someone else and lose the goal you are shooting for. Remember that we usually meet alot of lemons and cry a few tears first before that right one comes along. It is just how life is. If you are one of the luckier ones you will be able to be friends anyway but if not, then time is a wasting, get out, and look for that right one!
2006-10-08 20:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by beverly p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You scared her off but putting her on the defensive right away by asking of her work location and then accusing her of considering you like a bad boy. Which, was entirely unnecessary because the thought would never have occured to her since she doesnt know you.
You might try to apologize about making her feel uncomfortable or just look at her from your places at the bus stop until she feels comfortable to approach you. Good luck.
2006-10-08 20:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every thing is OK. But in end u said that u can't leave without her, even you don't know that weather she loves you or not? My dear friend acc to ur story she is in love with you. Just be patient and wait. Surely you will get a good result.
And in case u don't get her never loose hope.
2006-10-08 20:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just talked to you for once and by this you can't tell that she thinkks of you the same way as you do! i mean you should ask her out before it is too late! don't be shy! take your chance and go straight to her and ask if she is interested!
2006-10-08 22:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend..!!
Mostly... all the girls are like that..!!don't be silly..!!
I am sure that...one day she will said directly to you(ILU...ILU..)if you don't have confidance.?..then prepare your self...!!
I am giving to you "10 day commands" to attract her with your personality..!!
day 1. Improve your dresses and looking shoes/chappals
they must be looking more fresh..!!
day 2.try to make your body perfect/slim..!!
day 3.before go to outing check your hair..& style it well!!
day 4.always look happy..!!(always smile Please)
day 5.if you have a mobile/then buy a good one Immeadiatly..!!
day 6.if you don't have a bike/buy a new model very fast..!!
day 7,slowly invite her to a cinema..!!
day 8,offer to her a tea/ice crem/snacks..!!
day 9.try to speak with her very minimum and attractive words..!!
day 10.try to share with her your personal views& future life..!!
NB:never try to underestimate your self..!!
after that ...you will give me a party for success..!!
2006-10-08 22:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Chanakyan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do one thing,enquire a little about her.few general thing as in she belongs to which place nd most importantly is there any one in her life......BABU BADE DHOKHE HAI IS RAH ME....so plz go nd get some info about her nd then go ahead and tell her that u like her and u feel for her.then take her for lunch
all the very best
2006-10-08 20:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather then waiting and wasting time tell her your feelings...Taker her out for coffee or lunch or even u can celebrate ur b'day even if its not coming in near future..then open ur heart and tell all ur feelings to her,,girls like bold and open guys..you wld get the answer by looking at her face,i mean by her expressions..
ALL the best!! but if it will be negative response dont loose ur heart..
2006-10-08 20:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some help!!!! i think you need to stay away from this girl sound's like she is a gold digger (only interested in money. and what she can get from you!!!!! run ..fast ... run ..... far....... and keep your money !!!! sorry but we are brutal :).. mean and nasty!!!! i know i am a woman.daughter.mother.wife.and X wife.a girlfriend.a lover.and a friend... she is not interested!!!!!!! sorry :(
2006-10-08 20:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your first step must be: confirming that she likes you if she likes you i dont see anythung other than asking her out and if she does not like you im sorry but i think you really ant force someone to love anyone
2006-10-09 00:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ITS DEFINITELY TRUE LOVE AND U CAN CONTINUE AND BEST OF LUCK
2006-10-08 20:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋