2006-10-08 20:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by Ray L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait . . . relationships are hard enough without the ocean dividing you. She wants you to have a kid because it makes her more secure you will come back to her. However, don't let her do this. Besides what happens to the kid if you two don't make it? Or worse what happens if you don't come back? If you do get her pregnant wouldn't you want to be there for the pregnancy process? Wouldn't you want to bond with your unborn child throughout the pregnancy? Think about all the scenarios and there is little benefit in having a kid now.
2006-10-08 20:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Payne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way do not bring a child into this world when there is a possibility that you may not make it back. do you really want to take a chance on having your kid never being able to know its father?? she would have be a single parent and you will have to risk a chance of someone else (male figure ) helping in the process of raising your child. wait til you come back. this way together you can share the joy of conceiving and the pregnancy together and also the birth of the baby-an experience you do not want to miss-- and raising your kid with your love not another man. if she really loves you she will wait and understand
2006-10-09 09:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are married, let nature take its course.
Assuming you are a young man, your chances of an early death are far greater in civilian life at home than in war.
Don't drink and drive. Don't hang out at bars. Don't do drugs.
And if you're going to war, train hard and work with the finest, most professional warriors. You'll live longer.
I'm technically a secular humanist, but I'll say God bless you and your loved ones. Thanks for your service.
2006-10-09 03:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Boomer Wisdom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you come back. That way you will be able to share the pregnancy with your partner. Besides, if you are killed in Iraq, she will have to raise your child alone.
2006-10-09 03:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer is so different.. i think u should try... well ur gurl wants it right and i bet u know y!.. i would i mean if ma man was going... there is always that posibility that u may not come back and if she gets pg then she will always have a piece of u with her...i pray that u may come back as the way u left.. my prayers are with you .. i feel u will make the right decision... follow ur heart!
2006-10-09 03:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by da1Nonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect the fact that you are going to Iraq. I would have a baybe after you come back.
best of luck
2006-10-09 03:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why orphan a child? I would suggest waiting til you get back. In the meantime, if you truly love "your girl" -- how about marrying her first?
2006-10-09 03:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋