me & my girl friend r from two different religion. But we love each other very much. our relationship is 15 months old. She is very fun loving. She always wants to make out with me. i am 26 & she is 22. i am doing a job & she is studying in a university. she also have some male friends. But this disturbes me a lot. I cant stand her with another boy. Most of the time we fight with each other. She is also not able to give me much time. Sometimes i wonder does she love me or not? But i just cant stay without her. Since i am doing a job we met onec a month. So i know she miss me a lot. I am always afraid to lose her. Can anyone help me?
2006-10-08 20:00:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anjon28July 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me guess...you are muslim and she is Christian...forget about it...oil and water...
2006-10-08 20:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is always a problem. It's better to be with a person with a similar religious background because if you decide to get married and have kids later on in life, it might be a problem because you both might have different views on how the kids should be raised.
If she is in university, then yes, that means that she has less time to do other things, like being with you. That's normal.
What confuses me is that you say at the beginning of your message "we love each other very much" and later on you say "Sometimes i wonder does she love me or not?".....if you both love each other like you say, then you wouldn't be fighting about who she is with, no??
That fact that you both see each other only once a month makes it harder to keep in touch on the emotional side of things. You should talk to her more in depth and see how she really feels about you.
Also, if someone always wants to make out with you when they're with you, then ya, I'd be worried too. That's why it's important to talk to each other more...share the feelings.
Good day.
2006-10-08 20:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What two different Religions...sounds like it is a Trust Issue. Learn to Trust her, or you are going to lose. Leave her Male Friends out of it, that has nothing to do with anything. Meeting once a month does. You are going to have to work on that Control Issue thing, if you want any girl to respect you.
2006-10-08 20:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by rosenberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend used to be very paranoid about me having so many guy friends as well and all it did was make me angry at him and push me towards the other guys. you have to trust your girlfriend and understand that with a lot of girls we just feel more comfortable with guys as friends. the whole time apart thing has to be tough i know i've done it but you just have to show her how much she means to you. a simple phone call saying that you love her goes a long way. as does sending flowers, heartfelt sappy e-mails. just any little gesture that reminds her that even though you aren't there with her, you never stop thinking about her.
2006-10-08 20:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by spazz2dt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she loves you.. you have to trust her that she is not dating other guys. Not trusting her is going to cause problems all through your relationship.... two people cannot have a good relationship without trust.
The religion thing may be a problem though.. you didnt mention which two they are.
2006-10-08 20:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really must try to deal with your insecurity issues first....or no matter who you date, you will have problems and will never be happy.
Being from 2 different religions shouldn't make any difference, but you not having any trust will!
2006-10-08 20:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to ask her whether she really loves you and is ready to get married with you. As for possessiveness is concerned,as men we all are possessive about our wives or girlfriends, at some time or the other in our life. But you also need to understand that she is going to come in contact with other men and if you have full faith in her then you need not worry.
2006-10-08 20:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if u really love her then why not propose to her and regarding having male frnd loosen up a bit its ok she is not sleeping with them. Don’t stress her cause if u do then u will loose her.
2006-10-08 20:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her den u shud learn 2 trust her completely n let her know dat. U shud also spend more time with her if u really love her. Shes probably around those guys becoz she sees dem more den she sees u!!!!. So prove 2 her dat u love her by spending more time with her!!!
2006-10-08 20:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by SKY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋