me & my girl friend r from two different religion. But we love each other very much. our relationship is 15 months old. She is very fun loving. She always wants to make out with me. i am 26 & she is 22. i am doing a job & she is studying in a university. she also have some male friends. But this disturbes me a lot. I cant stand her with another boy. Most of the time we fight with each other. She is also not able to give me much time. Sometimes i wonder does she love me or not? But i just cant stay without her. Since i am doing a job we met onec a month. So i know she miss me a lot. I am always afraid to lose her. Can anyone help me?
2006-10-08 19:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anjon28July 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As you said "you always afraid to lose her", one thing you made very clear you love her very seriously. Next you have to do strengthen your relationship with your girl friend. How ? Meet her frequently thrice or four times in a month, understand her what she is looking exactly in you.Catch the point and knot it for ever. Once you create good understanding then you have to keep 100% faith on her. No more talks like " she also have some male friends. But this disturbes me a lot. " Ask her marriage plans and share your plans with her.
Create good understanding before passing any suspicious comments.If you fail leave her , if you suceed then the world in your hands........I strongly believe you love her and you can..!!!!!
all the best buddy.
2006-10-08 20:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a very real emotion, especially in a relationship that is full of love. Be careful of jealousy as it can tear a relationship a part. Mainly because with jealousy from one party the other party sees it as mistrust. You need to curb your jealousy and find a way to be with your girlfriend more. What is more important your job or her? this is a real question that you need to determine. perhaps your career is more important. Perhaps she also needs to give a little too.
I will advise you of this. Men are ruthless. They don't care if she has a boyfriend, a husband, a family, etc. They will go after her if they want her no matter what. I would do some serious marking of your territory with the guys she hangs with more than anything. However, the best way to do is to act like you are their buddy more than there enemy. Less guys will get it on with their friends gf than their enemy's gf. However, there is still a risk.
2006-10-08 20:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Payne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insecure about your relationship, and probably for a good reason. I know you love her by what you say, but it doesn't sound like it's worth it to her. You both are VERY different people, not only with your separate religions, but with your inability to get along and agree with one another. Prepare yourself for a big disappointment, but you can still be hopeful without being jealous and insecure! Go your own way for a while, and see if she misses you as much as you miss her. And good luck with whatever happens.
2006-10-08 20:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rebooted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurity and low self esteem is showing . You need to get a grip on your own problems and learn how to overcome them before you try to control some one else, there also appears to be a Huge trust issue. I would recommend you talk to a professional about these problems as you are creating most of the difficulties in your mind and do not recognize it,
2006-10-08 20:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have things going on, she is younger than you. You have a job and she is still in school. Being possessive of her and who she is friends with can spell the death of your relationship with her. It's OK to be concerned but not overly bossy. I would suggest to get a grip. You both know you care about each other. You are the only one who can control yourself and your behavior.
2006-10-08 20:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend was very paranoid approximately me having such somewhat some guy pals as properly and all it did replaced into make me offended at him and push me in the direction of the different adult males. you ought to have faith your lady buddy and comprehend that with somewhat some women we only experience extra mushy with adult males as pals. the finished time aside element must be annoying i understand i've got achieved it yet you purely ought to tutor her how lots she skill to you. an basic telephone call asserting which you adore her is going an prolonged way. as does sending flowers, heartfelt sappy e-mails. only any little gesture that reminds her that even however you at the instant are not there along with her, you in no way stop thinking approximately her.
2016-10-19 01:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do if u want to save your relationship is to try to make time to see eachother as much as possible .. dont be so jealous about her male friends she can have friends too ya know..
2006-10-08 20:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by B* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has interests, other than you. You apparantly don't. You are justified in your fears.
You have better chance of saving your relationship if you accept her as she is and stop fighting about her other relationships.
2006-10-08 20:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have faith on each other and trust each other ... if u r in true ove and if u know her well. if u dont know completely about her, try to know more about her. andthe best thing would be.... just speak out with her buddy!!!!
2006-10-08 20:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah...this is exactly the story of my frnd......well..tehy just had a frank(mind u veryyyy frank and honest)..heart to heart talk.....and everythin' was clarified....
hope dat works for u too....where there's a will...there's a way.. ;)
2006-10-08 20:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋