2006-10-08 19:40:32 · 24 answers · asked by Janet _agnetha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes.. it sounds so crazy and unreasonable. i fell in love with someone who is fat, ugly and old. believe it or not i'm still very much in love and crazy over this person and it was a love at first sight.
once you are in love with someone.. all u see is beauty.. all u feel is peace.. it doesn't matter whether this person is attractive or not..
i guess this is wat they called true love... huh..
2006-10-08 19:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by bLuR.? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think so... but usually when you love someone you find them attractive anyway. Like, maybe their physical looks didn't attract you at first, but after getting to know them and loving them for who they are, they become attractive to you.
But if you are repulsed by the person's face or body or whatever, I don't think it's possible to really love them.
2006-10-09 02:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by spanish kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it's as the saying goes "true love is blind" it's the feelings you both have for each other recive from each other that makes it love, the only problem I see with you asking this question is you have a fear of what other will think of you partner, if this is so then you need to overcome this small bump and make a choice, either your going to go with your hart or go with what others with think, and in time you're find out that what others think is just as important as cleaning your P/C screen, if what you see is what your looking for then you've found your Paradise and your P/C screen is clean enough.
2006-10-09 03:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. It's funny cuz I fell in love with a guy that I wasn't totally attracted to. But he had a great personality. Sometimes personality can go beyond looks. It just depends on the person. Although after we broke up, I wondered what I ever saw in him. And didn't find any attraction towards him or his looks.
2006-10-09 02:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you truly fall in love with a person he/she will be attractive to you in any case, doesn’t matter what others think and has to say about his/her looks. But if you find someone unattractive and still you feel for him/ her I guess it could be sympathy, your loneliness, or not sure of true feelings.
if you are sure that you donot find that person attractive I guess then you are not exactly in love .
So my ans is NO you cannot fall in love with a person that you do not find physically attractive.
2006-10-09 03:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Janet, Yes you can.People who are not attractive are loving and caring people.A pretty face does not make a person attractive.I have known people who had a beautiful
face,but was ugly on the inside,and had no feeling on the inside.Go for the man you love,who cares about his looks,if you love him and he treats you with love and respect you will be happy...
Clowmy
2006-10-09 02:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in love with a guy that i didn't find physically attractive at the begining but with time i found out that being in love with some one who loves u back is much more imp than just loving a guy that turn u on just from looking at him but not loving u back.so love is the key if u like him u will love him and if u love him then he will for sure turn u on.
u can just tell him what u like in bd and he will do it for u.
2006-10-09 02:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Looks are not everything and you're probably in love with their personality and the way they make you fell. The greater someone makes you feel the more you find them attractive.
2006-10-09 02:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Pieces of Me ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say definitely so... I believe the personality and feeling secure is more attractive than physical appearances.
2006-10-09 02:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by ajwranch16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Ask a blind person can they fall in love? The same answer. If you rely only on looks - as you get older and people change you will become disappointed...
2006-10-09 02:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋