2006-10-08 19:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by mark_huckerby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well it seems that she is young, probably between the ages of 18-21...but age has nothing to do with it.. she has commited herself to you, she is supposed to be your future wife! She is a dirty girl sleeping with the first man she sees when she got to uni, it seems that she is not actually in love with you , and university was the perfect opportunity for her to explore elsewhere, i think you should get rid of her, she will only become more promiscious whilst she is living away from home, she is at uni, if she slept with a stranger within 4 days, how many men is she going to sleep with in the next 3 years????? sorry but you can do so much better... find someone who is going to be loyal, honest and respectful to you! good luck.. x
2006-10-09 00:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an uncommitted relationship of convenience- a fiance of 2-1/2 years is a bit long.
2006-10-08 19:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He slept with a lad as in man? Or did you mean lady? Why were you engaged for two years anyway? I find that most of the time really long engagements with no sign of a wedding indicate a couple that isn't committed. His actions prove that.
2006-10-08 19:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is gorgeous and because this is a change in her life and her personality, which brings along new interests and perhaps new perspectives about relationships too. If you heve been engaged too young, maybe that is the mistake. She may feel she needs more experiences. Basically, there is nothing you can do about it. If you are willing to forgive her, just let her know, wait, and if she loves you she will come back to you.
2006-10-08 19:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds immature. Perhaps she is too young to settle down. Whatever it is, you need to talk to figure out why she felt the need to sleep around. Don't take that she was drunk, as an excuse because that is a complete cop out. Maybe, you should walk away because she sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do.
2006-10-08 21:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only she has the answer to this question. There could be many reasons and if you are prepared to accept the truth, no matter how painful, then ask her to be brutally honest with you and tell you. If she cant or wont then she obviously doesnt want to be honest with you................ and do you really want a girlfriend who you cant trust because you know her to be dishonest.
2006-10-08 20:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by hollyb20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bored with you
Realisation
Low Morals
Cheap
2-faced
Untrustworthy
In denial
not in love with you
horny
that guy was irresistable
you are a bad sex partner
2006-10-08 19:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Claude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Coz your partner is not committed to you. Cut out and run like your life depends on it...when you still have the chance.
2006-10-08 19:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by kenyanmartin2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you and she are too young to be engaged and she obviously isn't ready to settle down. You probably aren't either if you were being seriously honest with yourself.
2006-10-08 19:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 and 1half years mit b it
2006-10-08 19:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋