Im not sure if this is true. What if a guy gets hammered and makes the mistake once and tells u the next morning?
2006-10-08 18:23:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He will do it again. YES once a cheater always a cheater. Drinking is no excuse.
2006-10-08 18:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by sabbycat76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you listen to other women you are crazy (they talk a big game but if you read some of there questions they have problems too) about leave him or as you put it once a cheater always a cheater but the fact is you need to learn to deal with this situation not run from it. Its not just men that do it and we all have a different reason and/or circumstance so if you don't care then just let him go but if you have the brain and some common sense then listen and figure out if he is for real he did be upfront with you so maybe you can let it go.
2006-10-09 01:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then he most likely regrets it. However, alcohol is more than not just an excuse for doing stupid things. If it really was just because he was drunk, perhaps you guys should look into getting him into AA or into a good rehab so it doesn't happen again. If he insists on going to the bars where all the whores and sluts hang out, it's bound to happen ... sorry for the strong language, but I don't see many "Ladies" at the bars.
2006-10-09 01:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it will be hard to trust again. The person has to get the trust back, but it defenetly doesn't mean that he will always be a cheater.
2006-10-09 01:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Onca a cheater, always a cheater. If they will do it once, they will do it again.
2006-10-09 01:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Meighan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should give him the benefit of the doubt, but only ever the once as I still think that a leopard never changes its spots. What will happen next time he is drunk!
2006-10-09 01:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me... its really hard to forgive and forget and gain trust back...im proof of it..but im doing it ...and you can do it too if you love him and he loves you..just set some rules...
but i dont believe that once a cheater always a cheater ppl do change...
2006-10-09 01:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who cheated even once? What excuse will he use the next time? Move on with your life.
2006-10-09 01:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all people have the same attitude don't judge them for what they have done once. We're only human beings we commit mistakes.
2006-10-09 01:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least he told you, not that it makes him look any better. but just remember the saying "one time shame on you, 2 times shame on me" meaning it was his fault the first time around, if he does it again, you would be a fool to stay with him.
2006-10-09 01:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋