i just walked in on my 12 year old mastubating and she said ever since she got her period she has felt the urge to simulate sex!
is this normal?
2006-10-08 18:08:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yup, normal. That's about when I started. Apologize for not knocking and knock before entering in the future. If you aren't already talking about sexual feelings, relationships, your values, etc., now is time. The fact that she talked to you about it probably means she is open to listen to you and share. It is important, even if you feel weird about it, that you convey to her that her feelings are normal. Your weirdness is probably more due to the fact that your little girl is getting sexual feelings. If she doesn't feel shamed about this, she is more likely to share other things with you--and I'm sure you'd rather be in her life giving her good input on her decisions than to be boxed out and find out things later.
2006-10-08 18:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvia M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal for anyone to masturbate. At 12 hormones start flying around. Just relax, and tell her to maybe lock the door, and you should knock as well.
Haha, I just looked at your previous questions, you are 12. It isn't a big deal, you are just curious, but that doesn't meen you should lie baout your age either.
2006-10-08 18:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Your daughter is experiencing sexual feelings because her hormones are changing due to her getting her period. DO NOT make her feel uncomfortable about her feelings as they are quite normal for her age.
You may want to discuss sex education with her or give her age appropriate information.(ask your obstretrician for books)
You need to relax and don't panic, everything will be OK.
2006-10-08 18:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ruth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal! Just makes sure that she keeps simulating it until she's legal to do the real thing.
2006-10-08 18:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she feels this way, but dont lecture her or anything about the issue, it will just make her feel awkward and she will think twice before asking you for help on another issue.
2006-10-08 18:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal and healthy.
2006-10-08 18:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yes.
2006-10-10 07:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋