I live in Pakistan I have girl friend she loves me very much and I love her very much too. Actually she belongs to a established family and lives with her parents in the capital of Pakistan and I belongs to a very poor family and doing job in Government sector as an Assistant on the salary of Rupees 8000/- per months and in the evening I teach maths and physics tuitions (actually I am graduate with physics double maths) in this way my totally per month income is round about 12000/-.
Because I am poor and belong to a very poor family I can’t get her through proper channel and she also knows that it very difficult for me. When I met her last time I gave suggestion to her that please get marry with your cousin because she is already engaged with her cousin since 3 years and according to her family she is going to get marry with her cousin after 2 moths.
Now she is saying to me that “I cant live without you and your love please pick me from my house forever I cant live with my family they are cruel” if I say no to her then she consider me that I am not fair with her and I am cheater. Actually I am afraid to pick her because she belongs to a very strong family……………..
Please give me a suggestion I am very worried about it…………..
PLEASE THIS IS ONLY FOR SERIOUS PEOPLES.
2006-10-08 17:59:31 · 4 answers · asked by Zahid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, that is a serious problem. But if I were you I will use my brain. i will not pick her, but I will prove to her that I love her. Besides your future will destroy because as you've said that she belongs to a strong family. Don't waste your life boy. sHE IS NOT THE ONLY GIRL IN THIS WORLD . bUT IF THERE ARE CHANCES THAT you are the one at the end, grab it.
2006-10-08 18:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by psychedelic_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to simply say: Go, pick her up and marry her! That would be what most ppl would say. I don't live in your country though and I don';t know what you mean when you say that her family are powerful. Does that mean they could kill you if you did pick her up and take her away from them? Could they get you fired from your job and make it hard to find another good job? If you would be in any great danger then it is not such a wise idea to go riding in on your white horse and steal her away. You and only you can make the decision as you are the only one with all the facts.
It would be such a romantic thought that you save her from her family and you live together happily. I hope things work out for you both.
2006-10-09 01:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youu put your left foot in you pull your left foot out you put your left foot in and you shake it all about, you do the hokey poky and you turn yourself around.....
and thats what its all about
if you can see the message given in this great work of art ,you havethe insight to conquer your problems second verse is the same but use right...good luck
2006-10-09 01:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her than you will follow your heart to be with her. If you dont really love her, then tell her and let her move on.
2006-10-09 01:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋