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im in some what of a triangular affair... im in a need both situation...
im a very open person.... plz contact me..need a lot of help in it....
need some thoughts from experienced ppl..

2006-10-08 17:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

4 answers

First of all, why would you ever consider cheating to begin with?!?!?! It is very damaging to any relationship. And the damage doesn't stop just at the relationship. It causes emotional, mental, spiritual, and even physical damage to all individuals involved.

I know that people sometimes tend to stray from their current relationships because something is missing in it. Affection, trust, attention, sex, the feeling of being needed or appreciated, whatever, all lead to a partner to leave a relationship. I have been cheated on many times by my now ex-wife. It ruined me in every aspect of my life.

I say to end your affair or end your relationship. There is an old saying, "No slave can serve two masters, for he will love the one and hate the other." Pick one and stick with it.

I feel that too many people are confusing the difference between love and lust. Lust sometimes later turns into love. Break off one of your relationships. Hopefully there isn't children involved in this situation. If there is, it is best to save what is left of the relationship with the one you have the children with.

Good luck, and use better judgment!!!!

2006-10-08 18:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lonewolf 3 · 0 0

There are lots of ways to cheat. Sooner or later they get caught by the spouse, cause they get careless. I had a husband who would disappear for days and come home as if nothing had happened. I always got some kind of vaginal infection though. Get a book on it. I'm sure there are tons. Somehow I think we just know from their habits changing. I think that is the number one clue to cheaters.

2006-10-08 18:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0 0

i have not yet experienced, though my friends had experience... and i give them some advice, though i think they don't do what i tell them (it seems)... one of my friend saw a woman's bra/underwear in the bag of her husband, and then one day, her husband just left and did not go home for 2 - 3 days, when he came home, as if nothing happened... another, for sometime the husband again was gone for 10 days and reasoned out that they have brotherhood in the office and that it is a secret, and no one knows in the office about it... another time again, my friend went to the office where her husband works, and a woman is there, talking to her husband and making some giggles and both laughing, and then the woman held her husbands head and kissed him, without thinking that they're with other people... you see, there are lots of signs that the husband really makes cheating the wife... even with money, her husband said that he has been in debt, and he only gives 1/4 of his salary to my friend, not knowing that my friend had known that her husband and another woman went to a romantic place... and there was even a time that it was their wedding anniversary yet the husband dated another girl... these what a friend of mine experienced... yet there are lot more ways that man would do...

2006-10-08 18:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by danieldenzel2 3 · 0 0

Very interesting question.I think is better idea,if you get divorce.If you are free (not married),you can do whatever you want,without problems.Good question.

2006-10-08 18:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0 0

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