you are having an internet romance.he comes visit you and ask for you to marry him and go with him.but you cant and he cant relocate eather because of our careers.is it best to forget or try to figure something out?what would you do?
2006-10-08 17:29:25 · 15 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we are both in usa by the way
2006-10-08 17:38:38 · update #1
I will try to figure it out..we will talk ,,and whatever we agreed about, that will be the decision
Relationship is a compromise..it must be give and take.. You cannot decide a situation without consulting him. Neither he cannot make a decision without consulting you. Its a matter of communication to be able to understand one another..
The question must be..
AM I READY TO MARRY HIM? DO I REALLY KNOW HIM? AM I REALLY HAPPY WITH HIM?
if all answer is yes.. you will be able to figure out what to do.. love will directs you in a certain way even the most complicated ones..
2006-10-08 19:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are sure of this romance and the validity of it, then I say "Do what you have to". Don't let this romance die.
Ask yourself if this is really and truely what you want and if it is right. Look at all aspects of it.
Kids, jobs, environments, etc.
I say try try try to make it possible if it is the right thing for you.
2006-10-09 00:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flippin forget it, you are obviously not in love if you both are not willing to compromise. Get a new man and forget the dweeb! Good luck!
2006-10-09 00:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by fatiima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isnt like it is in the movies. things just wont fall into place. you have too work at it. but it was selfish on his behalf to expect you to go with him. there needs to be compromise from both of you. talk to him. there will always be a way if you want it. goodluck
2006-10-09 00:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the Internet. Give that dishwasher guy a chance. He may surprise you. You can make your own money. As long as he is not a scrub, who cares?
2006-10-09 00:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should figure it out but only if you know you love if your not sure then i would say still try and figure it out
2006-10-09 00:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by free2style1026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. If he really loves and understands you, he will not force you to leave with him.. In addition, you don't love him enough to give up your career and etc.
2006-10-09 00:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by itguru5354 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that shet before, forget about marrying him & move on.
2006-10-09 00:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is "The One", you should figure something out. Otherwise move on.
2006-10-09 00:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you cant decide to live in the same country then i would say forget it.........are you jobs more important than happiness....if not then make the move.........and go for happy ever after
2006-10-09 00:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋