do u think some people like me are better off on the own
2006-10-08 17:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am anti-marriage. Fine to live together, be committed to one another, etc. but why does one need a piece of paper to obligate them to come home at night? Your already obligated by finances and emotional tie-ins. Isn't it a bit redundant? Not to mention, marriage with out a pre-nup (no matter who you are) can be financial suicide. Nothing is stopping the other person from requesting spousal support etc.
2006-10-08 17:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by kbuchanan802000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, marriage is not for everyone. Some people are naturally loners, and prefer their own company.
However, I meet a lot of women who SAY they are better off alone, when really what they mean is, they have given up hope of meeting someone. They're just trying to convince themselves that being single is OK, because they're too shy or too discouraged to get out there and meet a man.
I say, don't get discouraged. I've just got married again at 52. If I can do it, so can you!
2006-10-08 20:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... I have several friends that have not been able to find a man that they could put up with them living in their home full time... they're all attractive... but to have a man just because it's what everyone thinks you should is lame... my daughter is one and she says she's not going to settle for just anyone... to her have a man full time in her home is like taking on a second job as a maid and cook and laundress... the only bonus in a marriage with a man... is the income... for men it like gaining a slave... live and love who you are and be free... great thought to comment on!!!
2006-10-08 17:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that people can do greater things when not married... however, I think the abscence of children can really create a successful life tot he fullest, but that's only opinions there honey.
singleness is a gift, companionship is too... everyone wins.
2006-10-08 17:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is not for everyone..some women r meant to be single for ever....because i have some friends and im tellin u ..only a special man can deal w/ them..LOL
2006-10-08 17:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some ppl should def wait before they get married to grow up a little lol . but yeah i believe some ppl will just stay single but however i do in fact believe there is someone out there made for just you , and whether or not you find them is the question unfortunately :S , good luck in your future ! :)
2006-10-08 17:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweet7_happy9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not for everyone. If you are happier being on your own, then that's the best thing for you. You do what makes YOU happy, not to please other people. It's totally your choice!
2006-10-08 18:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a soulmate, but there is nothing wrong with single periods in your life.
2006-10-08 17:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT UP TO YOU I THINK... I LOVE MY LIFE IT GREAT TO BE ALIVE I HAPPY BEING SINGLE I HAVE LOT OF GREAT GUYS FRIENDS I OK WITH MYSELF MARRIAGE CAN BE BEAUTIFULTOO. BUT IF YA OPEN TO LOVE AND JOY IT BEAUTIFUL TO HAVE A PARTNER IF IT GOING TO CHANGE YA LIFE...YOU HAVE TO BE READY TO EXPLORE YA OWN HEART WITH ANOTHER SIGNIFCENT OTHER... LOL I ENJOY BEING SINGLE .... I LOVE FREEDOM ,,,
2006-10-08 17:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋