We live together and normally when we have a huge fight he makes me get all my stuff together and tells me to go home. Well, normally I'm there for a fight, but this time, I was at work and the fight started with him and his brother (who also lives with us). The fight was basically over the fact that I live with them without paying rent, (just cleaning and buying groveries....which was our original agreement....but when I lost my GOOD job, (which they knew about) and I had to start waitressing, all I could afford was to clean). I discussed this with my boyfriend (not his brother though) and my boyfriend said it would be ok if I just cleaned because he liked me living with him. Well, tonight when I was at work, him and his brother got into a fist fight about the whole situation and when I came home, he told me to get my things and leave. I did without talking or crying and just left. As soon as I pulled away, my boyfriend ran out and pounded a dent into my car. I just left.
2006-10-08 16:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
As soon as I got to my mom's house (he'd already called and wanted me to call back.) I haven't yet called back because he said some mean things to me and said we were done and I was a loser. I'm not a loser, just in a world of debt and trying to dig myself out....How do I know if this is the end?
2006-10-08 16:39:47 · update #1
What kind of man were you living with?
I absolutely hated it when a guy ask me to hit the road after a fight. It shows a lack of respect for you, and immaturity on his part.
He's calling you a loser so you can't tell that blatant fact about him in his face. Its like a pre-emptive strike.
Let him sort it out with his bro, make up his f*ckin' mind bout what he wants before calling you again.
On the other hand, he sure sounds like a selfish, inconsiderate, calculative a**hole, so, try to move on to a better relationship if possible. Do not condone such bad behavior or you'll lose your own self pride and identity.
2006-10-08 16:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Nemrac666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop waiting for your boyfriend to offically end the relationship and end it yourself. If he is constantly making you pack up and leave every time you have a fight, then allowing you to come back, he is just manipulating you.
If he's not willing to discuss problems and issues and just kicks you out, he's probably not the kind of guy you want a future with anyway.
Stay gone for good this time, and find someone that doesn't treat you like a yo-yo.
2006-10-08 16:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by MommyWommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling, you need a more supportive boyfriend. there's plenty of men out there who would be willing to live with their GIRLFRIEND if she cleaned the house and still didn't pay rent. as long as you've tried talking to him as rationally as you can - and things still don't seem like they're going to work out - then i say just stay away from him. no girl deserves to be put down when she hasn't done anything wrong. stay strong baby girl.
2006-10-08 16:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by music123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his actions show he cannot control his temper,what if that was you instead of your car,nothing is worth getting that angry over,i would just ignore him,and move on.you really need more support in your current situation,i hope you find it.
2006-10-08 16:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby.....i wish i can give u a hug..
Anyway, i think you may continue with the relationship...but stay else where.
2006-10-08 16:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine Ird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave this loser for good, he is an abuser and you are better off without him
2006-10-08 16:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
darlin what he is doin to you is called abbuse and you need to get out of that situation
2006-10-08 16:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by cbdelcalzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are an idiot.
This guy only wants you for sex.
Move on.
2006-10-08 16:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget about those idiots and find yourself a real man ...
2006-10-08 16:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋