i hate my own race, asians, but alot of asians kids throughot my life have been making fun of me becuase i was fobby looking . it caused me severe depression and i was traumatized by that.
2006-10-08 16:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by ma 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There is nothing wrong with you. Celebrate your race. I am not sure what fobby is. Don't let anybody have the power over you to make you feel less than. - Be strong, not weak. Asians are a beautiful people. Love yourself. If you love yourself, others can love you easier. You need a strong sense of self love, regardless of what others think. If others make fun of you, it is their integrity that is in question. If they were so secure, beautiful, or self loving, they would not be making fun of you. They are being cruel, because when they put others down, it takes the focus off of their own flaws. When people make fun of others, it is because it makes others feel small, so as to make themselves feel big. They are the ones who are insecure. That is why their integrity is in question.
2006-10-12 10:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by bobbie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be of mixed blood like me ma. Then you could hate five or six ethnic groups. lol
Seriously, mean kids show up in all shapes, colors and sizes. Very few people I know have gotten through life without being a target of ridicule.
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. Ridicule depresses everyone. If you continue to let depression take over and rule your life; then you have a problem that needs work.
If you really do look like somebody that just got off the boat; you may have a look that would sell with some agent for movies or commercials. Maybe the very thing kids have made fun of is your key to something special.
I have a friend whose looks are a type for certain kinds of movies. He has a few pictures on file with a talent agency. For that little bit of effort, he has been in six fairly big movies.
I hope you catch what I am saying. You need to take a different look and consider all your potential.
2006-10-08 18:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We would all be in a state of Depression,if we let people get to us.Some take thing different that others,move on Friends like this you do not need.
2006-10-08 16:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is anything wrong.... you just have to learn that the people in this world are all different and each have their own opinions. there is good in this world. you just have to find it. learn to differentiate and see that one person's actions do not represent the actions of all.
no one can make you feel inferior but yourself. you allow them to do that. don't.
2006-10-08 16:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by ed-dg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's because you have never kept touch with your roots.
It's not your problem. It's just that you have been immersed with western culture.
2006-10-08 16:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. There is nothing you can do to change who you are. Accept it and move on. Quit whinning.
2006-10-08 16:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some therapy.
2006-10-08 16:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Zach S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋