Depressed can someone help?

Question

Have you ever been in love with someone and then they sleep with someone you know...have u ever felt like total crap bout it? i cant eat sleep and i cant stop crying what do i do? can someone help? should i kill them both? does anyone know how i feel?

Answer 1

I know how you fell becaus someone did the same to me.try you best to get over it i did ,did kill them because you will go to jal you can be with another person you need that ok.

Answer 2

Well I didn't know the woman but yes after eight years of marriage, my husband decided he wanted to be single again and he acted as such. We have a child together. The day he walked out the door, I felt as though my entire world was ending. I didn't sleep, I forgot to eat some days, and I cried probably 98% of the time. I loved him with all my heart and he broke it into a million pieces. I didn't have the desire to exist. But I did and that was eight years ago. I'm now married to the best man I've ever known. And often I look back and think about the way I felt when my ex walked away to begin life with someone else. And you know what, he did me a favor. Because I didn't stop breathing when he walked out and now I have more in life and I'm happier than I've ever been. So no you shouldn't kill them, the best revenge is moving on with your life and finding happiness. There is life after love and there's also more love to find after love has gone. It's easy to give advice to someone but I have been there. I know what I'm talking about. And when I look back at all the pain one man put me through, I can tell you it was worth every bit of it to get to where I am now in my life with the man I love. Good luck.

Answer 3

This question can't be answered very easily because you've left out too many key points of information ,,,,,, Like for instance ,,,, Is this girl an X girlfriend ,,,, ?? Have you ever had anything to do with her before ,,,,,,,, Maybe she doesn't know how you feel ,,,, Maybe she wouldn't care ,,,,,,, She's obviously interested in this other guy if you know they sleep together ,,,,, You need to amplify your information ,,,,, People can't read what you think ,,,,, only what you write ,,,,, As for even thinking about killing some one ,,,,, I think maybe you might need a little counsel ling ,,,,,, You have no right what so ever to prematurely end someones life ,,,, And too you just might have a maturity problem too ,,,,,, So at any rate and guessing from what little I do know ,,,, I'd say you'd be better off minding your own business and keep your nose out of other peoples sex lives ,,,,,,, Yoda told you that

Answer 4

I hate to say this but i've been that other girl u want to kill and let me just say u have the upper hand right now and don't get dragged down along with them.I feel so bad now cause what comes around does indeed come back and it's ten times worse for me cause i've been on both sieds of the fence and it's like how could i be so dumb to get in the same trap but i did and i think i will forever have this on my conscience because i know how wrong i was.And as for him, he feels bad too cause we should've never gotten things started the way that it did ofcourse it was gonna end up messed up and he's all screwed up cause he's the one stuck in the middle cause he was the one who should have been faithful no matter what...So see in the end you'll heal and move on with ur life while we'll have this on our consciences' forever cause u can't change anything in past times....All i can say is try to be strong,keep ur head up high and kill them with kindness,that hurts the most.

Answer 5

I think what you need to do is find a close friend to hang out with. Staying occupied will help you keep your mind off of the situation. Then when your head is clear, your heart will tell you what to do. Whether you should confront the situation or just forget about the guy and realize that if he doesn't notice you or want a relationship with you, he's not the one for you. You will find someone else. The most important part is to keep busy. Eat some comfort food. Fell better.

Answer 6

Why would you let someone elses actions make or break you? Kill both of them? that is crazy! If this person slept with someone else, they were obviously not for you. Keep looking! Take a positive action for your own good and forget them. The right person will only have eyes for you and they may never meet you in prison.

Answer 7

OK to start off PLEASE DON'T KILL ANYONE!!!! its not worth it if this person loves you like you love them they are hurting ore than you for what they did to you and you can put on a happy face and let them think everything alright and that will make them hurt even more, because what they did it hurts them every night to even think that they would've done this to you, but that's only if they really ,loved you in the first place. If not i say **** em both you can do better by yourself or with someone who looks ten times better than him or her. believe me I've been there harming them or yourself id the first thought u have but you shouldn't its not worth it it may take some time before you are fully able to cope again in society but you'll be alright, and you'll find someone better than both of them. :)

Answer 8

Of couse, it is a HORRIBLE feeling. Unfortunately it is normal to go through hard times. The best thing to do is try to move on. Killing anyone won't change anything. It's just plain stupid. Try to talk to someone you trust about what you are feeling. Also writing a letter to the person that did you wrong, and getting rid of all of their things.

Answer 9

yup... are you married or just dating ?? either way I know it hurts... a break in the trust hurts more than anything... and the first thing is to realize you have to mourn the lose... and that all the emotions are ok and allowed.... so do not be so hard on urself... but, YOU have to also know when it is time to stop... it helps to keep a journal of your feelings... all of them... you will begine to realize that over time they begin to fade and then one day POOF you are OK again... and I can promise that writing does help you thru it..... keeping it inside does no good at all...... and the killing sounds good and even feels good thinking about it, but in fact, if you think about it, it is sort of making it easier on the others, and putting more of the stress on you... killing would be letting them off the hook, think about it ?? anyway, it is just wrong to kill so we cant do that !!!! so use the anger and hurt and pain to make urself over...... learn ur lesson and move on...... God bless

Answer 10

First off -live and let live!
WE HAVE ALL FELT THE SAME WAY B4!!

Don't throw your life down the drain for these goof-balls! Find someone else or even just get to know yourself better-by working on traits you'd like to change! Become the best you can be--and guys will be clamoring to be with you!