I give my friend a lot and I'm always nice to her. I try to be the best person I can be. But sometimes, or most of the time, she is really mean and she seems like she doesn't care about my feelings. But, I don't know if she knows she's doing it. And sometimes I think that I'm asking too much of her to be so nice and care more about me.
2006-10-08 16:25:37 · 12 answers · asked by Me Being Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honey, let me ask you this.... is there any communication going on here? friends talk and usually very open. if she treating you this way its because somewhere along the line she got the impression its OK. talk to her and tell her how she makes you feel. if that dose not work tell her she's selfish and not a good friend and be done w/her.
2006-10-08 16:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be kidding, you are setting yourself up to be treated like this. If she does it and you don't take a stand and put a stop to it, that is giving her license to continue to be that way. If you stand up for yourself and she gets mad then she is not a friend at all, if she sees that you won't tolerate it, maybe she will tell you what is causing her to treat you this way to begin with. Friends DO not treat their friends like crap all the time, I mean there are times when people lash out, but if they are doing it all of the time, there is something else going on there and nobody deserves to be treated like that.
2006-10-08 23:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound much of a best friends. Friends don't treat friends like that. If your friendship is not old, I say get into a different circle of people, so you can find a real friend. It will be okey if it happened once, we all have our days, but all the time, I 'd say, bye...With friends like that Who needs enemies?
2006-10-08 23:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about your feelings when you are feeling mistreated. If she is made aware of your feelings and she does care, she might try to make some changes. However, if she refuses to listen or becomes angry and ignores what you say, then it is time for you to get yourself another best friend and leave her alone.
2006-10-08 23:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have an honest talk with her. If she doesn't change, let her go. Friends come and go in our lives. Hang on to the good ones.
2006-10-08 23:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and tell her how you feel about her degrading you.
If she still treats you like ****, then she's not your friend to begin with.
2006-10-08 23:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by TheDeafCollegeStudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are putting this much of an effort into trying to be her friend, then i suggest that you put more effort into telling her how she makes you feel. and if she gives you a negative response then it is time to make new friends
2006-10-08 23:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend how u feel and if she is really your friend she will stop treating u like dirt
2006-10-08 23:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel and if they are not willing to change then they were never a true friend to begin with.
2006-10-08 23:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by nighthawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then she`s not ur best friend if she treats u like that
2006-10-08 23:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋