im married ..with 2 kids.....my case is quite complecated...as i see it...plz ask me details...i will try to reply to ur email....
its realy bothering me......
2006-10-08 16:24:05 · 8 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is going on?Sounds like u r in a love triangle.I really can't help u if i don't know your ?If u want 2 talk here is my Email
bersmith_05@yahoo.com
2006-10-08 16:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not complicated at all, my dear. You have to get your priorities straight. Your kids and your husband -your family come first. The person out of this is an outsider, and you need to leave him out of this circle till you can sort your insides and your insiders..your kids, your husband and yourself. Ask yourself what you really want...why you are doing this, and what is important to you.
Everywhere I have gone to, whatever I have I read and heard, many people always value their family. It is the ultimate. Value the small things that bring the biggest pleasures and fabulous treasures to you... not the instant pleasure that thrill you now that bring empitiness. Open your eyes, and heart, and think of your kids and and your life. Good luck.
2006-10-08 23:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had no right getting involved with another man so of course it's bothering you. You don't NEED both, you NEED to figure out just what it is you want and make a decision. You've cheated on your family and you don't think it should bother you? You deserve every part of it.
2006-10-08 23:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need both". There are a couple of ways to interpret that.
If you really mean you NEED both, I hope you don't mean that you are using one or other of these guys as a meal ticket. That's selfish and unfair. If you don't love someone, and you are living off him, then you should be ashamed of yourself.
If you mean you LOVE both of them, then that's rubbish too. You can be fond of two people, (like you can be fond of your kids or your mom) but you can't be romantically in love with both of them.
You need to get your act together and make a choice.
2006-10-08 23:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes abusive or something you should have left him before you got involved with someone else. If you still want to be with your husband you"ll have to leave the other guy alone and explain things to your husband and tell him it wont happen again.
2006-10-08 23:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats going one---I am in the middle of a triangle mysefl---e-mail me maybe I can help--- stefanie7629@yahoo.com
2006-10-08 23:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by chick29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need both what?What about your children?Does your husband know?Do you know that you spelled complicated wrong?
2006-10-08 23:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by seandebra17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up email me ay jonesey124@yahoo.com
2006-10-08 23:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋