I love this girl, adn doesnt know if she loves me back,?

Question

Ive known this girl for 4 months and we have had incredible convo and increbdible SE*.When i first met her i was engaged,a nd i cheated on my fiancee with her. Now when my fiancee found out i cheated she broke it off,and i have dealt with that. Now me and my friend i cheated with are abck talking, adn she tells me things like i love u and am in love with u, and wanna be with u,but then she turns around and do stupid little stuff like get amd at me over little petty things.Now im a sweetheart and she knows ill do anything for her,i have brought her materialistic things,paid bills,and bring her food when shes hungry,and give her money to get by with all the time.now when it comes to us hanging out or her seing me its fate because something always happens,we have set up like 4 different ocassions where we were suppossed to kick it and either she was sleep,something major happened, or she got sick, or just sumthin.Now I love her alot,and wanna know what i can do to find out if its real luv

I am GAy and and when i refer to my fiancee i mean a Girl.

Answer 1

well i think u should tlk to her and tell her how u feel about things and then listen to what she has to say and i think u 'll find what ur looking for through her answers

Answer 2

Love is a four letter word. In that I mean that in many cases it is a meaninless word because people use it all the time and don't really know what it means.

Not to go too far off base I will keep this answer to within reason.

Here is how you know... When one loves another as you indicated, then you have given off this show of affection. It is now the other person in control. They now know they have you if they want you.

People always want what they cannot have. Is this starting to make sense... Telling someone of your love seems to be counter productive. Let them find out by exploration.

Ignoring someone is almost always an attraction getter. If for any other reason, its because how could you... ?

"What is wrong with me...? " " Why don't you like me, or love me ? "

I hope this is starting to make some sense. I am not Gay, but I have nothing against gays. I just know people, and how things seem to work. If she goes away then its just as good. Move on...
Nothing is worse than constantly being in torment over someone you cant get on with. < If she returns then I was right > Just don't confim such a position and you'll do fine. Giving away that much power is only gpoing to cause a problem..

If she moves on - - Well, find someone else, cause it was not to be. life is short.... You have other people to meet, and they might be a lot better.... In fact they will be because you did not give them the power to put you aside and return as they please..

I will say this again. " People want what they cannot have ! "

How is that for the right answer !

Answer 3

your question sounds like that of a man... but your picture thing is that of a girl.... but then you have the rainbow in the back ground. and the rainbow is the universal signs for gays and lesbians....

but then you say fiance. and we all know it is illegal for the same sex to marry....

so tell me are you male or female....

(you could be using somones elses account...)

but the rainbow in your picture and your picture would have me thinking you are gay... and if you are that is great. nothing wrong it ..

Answer 4

look we cant answer that but if u love her than ask her how do u go out with someone that u scared of

Answer 5

Ask her!