I was so sure I was in love with my boyfriend, and now I made a mistake and have been telling him and its like he doesnt believe me.I told him to today I love him, but i am not in love with him. I want to go with my Ex so bad, I love him so much I made the biggest mistake of my life. My ex is waiting for me.
At the same time, I dont want to hurt my boyfriend, I dont know what to do I really need help.
2006-10-08 16:04:27 · 13 answers · asked by Mochica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes the cruelest, at least to him, is actually the kindest. He deserves to be with someone who really loves him. Just be very careful with your ex, there must have been some problems or he wouldn't have been a 'ex'. Why not try just being single for a while.
2006-10-08 16:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by tlkp05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For all parties involved be a WOMAN and be truthful of your feelings. Don't lead either guy on. Let them have the same opportunity you have of being in love someone for real. I think maybe you were lusting which can sometime make you think you are in love with someone.
You are already hurting your boyfriend by living a lie. If you don't love you just don't love him you may have love for him which are two different things totally. You can't help you fall in love with and no one can make you love them or be with them.
To help relieve this unnecessary stress that you have brought upon yourself. Be the Woman you need to be and get it right with your boyfriend the pressure will be lifted and he can find someone who really truly wants him and you and your ex can move on with your lives.
Sometimes honesty hurts but in the end its the best thing for all.
Best regards!
2006-10-08 16:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair to stay with someone if you don't love them the way they love you, he may be hurt now, but would be hurt much more later. Just gather your things and get moving, someday down the road, when he meets the girl that loves him the way he should be, he will be thanking you.
2006-10-08 16:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out. That should tell him. Because you are going to hurt someone either way. Just sit down and tell him that you want to be friends. After you get your stuff out of there.
2006-10-08 16:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but it sounds like you have been in two abusive relationships. If you give a guy sex, there is no reason for him to make a permanent commitment to you. You risk injuring your physical, moral, emotional and spiritual health by continuing to "give it up" without him being legally and morally bound to stay with you.
2006-10-08 16:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by bonhommecretienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have this big history of EXES !!! Once you break up leave it with that !!!!!! Your old flame is just ckecking out ,on how much power he has over you !!!! And once he has you then good bye it is !
You better fess up to the man you moved in with .
2006-10-08 16:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drag it out. the sooner it's over, the sooner he can move on. He deserves to be #1 in someone's life... not just a stand-in until they can get with the one they really want.
2006-10-08 16:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by TruthTeller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Do not drag it on any longer than necessary.
And, in the future, TAKE YOUR TIME getting to know someone before you RUSH into something like moving in together.
2006-10-08 16:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by ilovetiti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave, and do it as soon as possible, like today. You don't want to hurt your boyfriend but you have no choice. Better to make it quick and clean than to draw it out endlessly.
2006-10-08 16:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As soon as he unlocks your leg irons for you to go potty, RUN! RUN as fast as you can back to your ex and stop being such a victim!.......
Also, stop telling every guy you meet you love them,
"Ms. Thing-Mochica." Part of that is your fault you
know.....LMAO
2006-10-08 16:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋