Ok for starters my guy friend on sept 11th went to rehab to get help, he was suppossed to come back on the 26th, he did but went to work and asked for 5 more weeks, ever since the 26th his family hasnt returned my calls or anything, then this past tuesday the 3rd I called and It sounded like he answered the phone. I just shruged it off. But its kinda weird that it sounded like him and hes suppossed to be in rehab. I love him and trust him but I dont know what to think, he does'nt have any brothers so it couldnt be that and his father doesnt sound the same, so whats up could it really be him being at home avoiding me, or was it he was just home for a few days and went back to rehab, I dont know but I wish his family would return my calls. Someone please tell me what you think about all this. My mind wont let me rest.
2006-10-08 16:00:09 · 14 answers · asked by cherokee83pride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him alone and let his family help him. When you are in rehab it is a confidential issue. Most family are told this so that the person getting help is protected from the people who helped him get there. It is his recovery he is allowed to be selfish about it. His family may want him to have no contact w/ anyone from his past. He may also want to build up the trust he lost with his family and will do all most anything they want. He doesn't need you right now. You definitely don't need him. He will call.
2006-10-08 16:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they are allowed to come home for a weekend during treatment. Also, when he answered the phone or who ever answered the phone did he talk to you?
When my ex-husband was in rehab I couldnt talk to him while he was there. Only until he reached a certain stage of treatment
then we could see each other at group meetings.
If he is not at rehab and is home and wont talk dont keep torturing yourself. As much as it hurts, he may be avoiding you,
move on. It is not your fault, many people that have addictive problems run out on relationships without notice.
Good luck!!
2006-10-08 16:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be giving you the brush off or just needs space to complete rehab. Also, if he was participating in behaviors with you that he is trying to change it may be that he has to break things off in order to get his life straight. It does sound like you're getting mixed messages to a point and his family should do you the kindness of at least answering your calls. Why not call again and express your concern for his welfare and ask for an update while letting his family know that if he needs to stay away from you in order to get healthy that you will honor that. Good luck to you.
2006-10-08 16:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell me you can't get the message and count your blessings at the same time? If he is going to rehab and not your husband you had better run now as fast as you can. and if it was him on the phone. read my note" He don't want to be bothered with you" Forget him darling. You could have been stuck with this looser for a life time. Grandmother Mary
2006-10-08 16:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly you have got to relax. why don't you call the rehab centre to find out if he is still there or call his closest family member or his next best friend , they might know of his whereabouts. And send him an email or a message on his mobile phone to say you are worried about him or something. Good luck.
2006-10-08 16:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by listlessbutdiligent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of you're trolling on the grounds which you have an prolonged status account with 'favourite' Q&A. That stated, "Wow" what became she thinking is right. She, like maximum females, think of with their heart. After the heartache fades, she nevertheless has wish to initiate a sparkling existence, and that i wish you're there for help. {i could flow out of the section if i became her.} so a ways as legally possessing a million/2, she's definetly entitled. i wish her tale defames her husband interior the full city so he would not prefer to be seen in public.
2016-11-27 01:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by raap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you need to go on with your life. This individual seems to have a lot of issues. First of all but most of all honesty. Yeah, I think it's him answering the phone. I know it's very disappointing to you but be happy you found out what he is like now then later on. When he really hurts you. Be strong and forget about him. You will be better off. Believe me !
2006-10-08 16:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually you don't get let out of rehab unless you are doing outpatient treatment, which he may be doing. Let it rest. He is going through a difficult time and will let you know what is up when he is ready.
2006-10-08 16:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he found someone at rehab,,kudos on him trying to make his life better,, but also it seems like his amily doesnt want him associating with you perhaos they feel you were an accessory to his being in rehab,,
2006-10-08 16:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably go over to his house and see what I could find out. If he is there, talk to him. If his family is there, talk to them. It sounds like you need to find out whats going on so that you can get on with your life, one way or another. Good luck.
2006-10-08 16:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋