Why are blacks, whites and hispanics so negative about Asian males going out with women of their race?

Question

Yet these are the same people who says how great it is when they gop out with Asian females. This is mirrored in the media because they don't show Asian males with NonAsian women yet make it a point to pair up Asian females with NonAsian males in this country everychance they get. Why does the media do this when they don't do it with anyother group? Why are people so racist and hypocritical when it comes to this subject? The media is influencing the way Asians socialize in this country and dividing the whole entire race on purpose.

Answer 1

I never see Asian men with other races. It is always Asian women. I do not know of any racial prejudice against Asian men.

Answer 2

I've never actually noticed that non-Asians have a problem with Asian men dating black, white, or hispanic women. Granted, I'm from a small town in the South, and there's not that many Asians.

From an Asian guy I knew in college, I learned that in a lot of respects, Asians rarely seek out non-Asians romantically. I didn't ask a lot of questions, but I got from this guy that his parents would NOT approve of him dating a white girl, and that that is not at all uncommon. I don't know, but I would imagine the dislike of interracial relationships would extend to girls, too.

For some reason, Asian girls are the white guy's fantasy (for no real reason that I can figure out). I've speculated that it's the same kind of thing as the Catholic schoolgirl fantasy. You know, the petite Asian girl with the plaid miniskirt, midriff baring top, and pigtails. I guess that's why in media you do see Asian women with non-Asian men, even in non- or psuedo-sexual relationships.

I don't think there are any kind of hostile or hypocritical reasons (talking about the majority here, because naturally, you will get your wackos on the fringes who are hostile or hypocritical), and if they are, maybe you should at least consider that it's the Asian people, not the whites, blacks, or hispanics, who have problems with inter-racial relationships. I don't know for sure. If you ARE the Asian man, sorry if I made you mad. But based on what my friend said (and, by the way, based on what I've heard in various media and editorials), I don't think the non-Asians the #1 reason Asian men and non-Asian women aren't seen often in romantic relationships.

Answer 3

How can you prove that the media is influencing the way Asians socialize? We all socialize however we want, who would let the media dictate who we hook up with? The media portrays other races in an unfair way also, it's just that you wouldn't be paying attention to that. And I don't know how people of other races think about Asians dating another race, but I have heard of how some Asian men are negative about Asian women dating men of other races. Everyone has their own different opinions and not ALL people think this way. Be open-minded and keep in mind that people date whoever they want to date for their own reasons.

Answer 4

They feel threatened.

However, what you are saying is not completely true. Normally, non-Asian women do not want to go out with Asian men as there is not a big enough presence of the men from Asia as compared to Afro-Americans, Hispanics and Caucasians.

This is also due to the fact that many do not realize that being of Asian origin does not mean that they are all from the middle-East. This is because of ignorance and inadequate knowledge outside their immediate life. Ask them about their country and most common persons will not know anything.

There is a lot that I can go on with, but I will leave that to others.

By the way, Asians are generally construed as Orientals and not necessarily Aryan or Dravidians.

Answer 5

First of all a real man takes ownership of his own feelings and doesnt generalize his anxiety to huge crowds of coincidentally similar people.
Secondly of all if you are thinking people by and large are being influenced by media portrayals then maybe you yourself are being influenced by media portrayals.

When you take a stab at an entire subculture you show in your own words hypocrissy and the impossibility. Name one person you know that is dating an asian girl that thinks its wrong for asian men to date whites or black or south americans or whatever. Im sure you cant. name one single soul out of this entire ohter-than asian crowd you are waving fingers at that is both dating an asian and thinks its not ok for asian men to be with anything different.

So, you have to dislodge that retarded idea and bigotry from yourself first to see clearly. But i think youre one of these morons that is dead set on a stupid idea and youre going to grind at it no matter what anyone says.
We will try to answer you and then you will argue even against the answer.
So shut the hell up for one second and read this:
I DONT CARE IF YOU ARE WITH A WHITE GIRL or whatever.
I DONT GIVE A **** IF YOU ARE DATING, MARRYING, HAVING KIDS, JUST A FLING, I DONT CARE!
Now, your argument presented in your question is null.
im sure youd be a bum in any birthday suit.

Answer 6

i think of extra effective than white or Asian it quite is the guy that concerns maximum. There are very solid, pleasing Asian females besides as white females. Culutre can in basic terms play a minor function interior the guy's character is that guy or woman is wakeful of ethical values frequently. I aslo had a courting with a guy who's a foreigner yet chanced on it uncomfortable becaue they are suggested in a diverse ecosystem. besides i think of it quite is extra suitable to concentration on the female's characteristics than on the exterior coloration. I even have discovered this the confusing way.

Answer 7

Because the general American public sees Asian as a feminine race. Therefore women are often not attracted to Asian males, but males are attracted to Asian women.

Answer 8

I don't agree that the media (and I think you really mean the entertainment industry) intentionally show some racially mixed partnerships more frequently than others. But I do take your point that some individuals may feel uncomfortable with an Asian or Afro-American male dating a white female, and that's their problem to come to terms with.
Show life as it really is.

Answer 9

It is not only Asian males that get stiffed. How many times do you see a nice black female featured. They always have to be ghetto and uncivilized. Talking stupid

The media dose this because they think that is what gets ratings.

Answer 10

Asians are, on the whole, considerate and intelligent people. How the hell are we supposed to compete with that? If our chicks find out that there is an entire race out there that will treat them with dignity and respect then we can't treat them like crap anymore. I'll be damned if I'm gonna let that happen!