When i first met him before things got serious i did promise him a threesome but as the relationship got deeper i told him i'm not comfortable with the idea and i can't go through with it anymore cause i could never see him with someone else in any way never mind like that.But he will continually ask me for a threesome cause he says he never had one before and would love to try it and when i told him i would do it if he brought in a guy for me( just to see his reaction to that) he said never mind.Basically he wants to do what he does but it ain't cool for me to do the same.Then he fliped the script and was like i just wanna watch u two and i'll be only with u but in the past he didn't put it like that.I'm just wondering if a guy who says he loves u and wants to be with u and knows already how u feel about the situation yet keeps asking does he really love you and if so can he really be trusted?Maybe he just want sto be sexual with someone else or someone that'll give him a threesome...
2006-10-08 15:22:34 · 8 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget this guy if you really want love. He is not about love. He is about his lust at any cost -- that includes losing you. You have already told him you are not comfortable with the idea. (Good for you!) Joining a threesome will only give your lusting "boyfriend" ammo to dump you or possibly make you his live porno friend.
Dump him and take some time tending to yourself -- what do you really want in a relationship? You do NOT have to do these things to keep some guy. Let him get his kicks without you. He is not ready for a serious relationship and nothing good can come of this until he either wakes up or learns the hardway.
By the way -- get tested for STDs to be on the safe side.
2006-10-08 15:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by joyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, a man who loves you and adores you would never ask you to do other people for him to get his jollies.
He's a creep and you could get nasty diseases from all this. Dump his sorry butt. Today. Right now.
2006-10-08 22:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL R u serious? It seems like he is just in it for a good time if you know what I mean.
Wanting to humiliate someone does not mean you love them.
2006-10-08 22:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....no no no.
If he wants a 3-sum, then he doesn't give one flying sh!t about you. I"m sorry! Drop his as$ and find someone that has some ethics in their life sweety.
2006-10-08 22:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP ITS EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTS TO DO IF HE JUST WANTS TO DO IT THEN I BE THAT'S THE ONLY THING ON HIS MIND
2006-10-08 22:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jalen J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! He's a creep.
2006-10-08 22:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't.Do it anyway
2006-10-08 22:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a creeps................
2006-10-08 22:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋