I really want to become pregnant, but I hav'nt had my period in about 3 months -.-, I think it might be because I'm vegan, and they can have irregular periods so I've been told. But me and my husband really want a baby girl. We don't have inshurance, so go'n to a doctor is out of the question for now. Also, I can't seem to get confertible having sex w/him. I feel like I'm not a good wife because I hate it so bad, but it never seems to feel better like I was told I should. I think I make him feel like I'm not happy w/him, but I luv him so much, its jus... I wish I could go ahead and get pregnant w/o that.
2006-10-08 15:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I'm 18 yrs. old, and the reason we dont have inshurance, I dont have a job, and my husband and his family are not american citizens.
2006-10-08 15:18:05 · update #1
Talk to your husband. Tell him how much you love him and want a baby but that sex is hurting you and talk about how the two of you, together, can make it better. You're not a bad wife, you just need to sort a few things out. If your husband is a good husband, he won't want to hurt you and he'll try to make things better. It could take time, but you really need to work on this together. You can't solve this by yourself.
2006-10-08 15:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by mishmush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL TAKE IT THIS WAY
U ARE 18 YEARS OLD AND THE SEX IF U LOVE HIM YOU'D *** JUST BECAUSE ITS HIM NOT THE SIZE NOE THE FRUSTRATION WILL STOP U FROM ENJOYING
IT SOUNDS LIKE YALL RUSHED INTO MARRIAGE THINKING IT WOULD BE EASY AND ITS HELL BECAUSE U DONT KNOW WHAT U ARE DOING AND IF U HAVE NO INSURANCE HOW U WILL GET YOUR CHECK UPS
I THINK THE REASON U ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH HIM IS BECAUSE U HAVE SOME KIND OF HIDDEN INSECURTIES THAT CAUSE U NOT TO GET COMFY WITH HIM
THIS IS YOUR HUSBAND HOW CANT U BE COMFY WITH HIM
U ARE STILL SO YOUNG AND HAVE SO MUCH LIFE TO LIVE SO WHY NOT WAIT
A BABY IS NOT AN SHOW ITEM ITS A LIFE THAT U WILL HAVE TO BASE THE REST OF YOURS AROUND UNTIL IT TURNS 18 BY THEN YOU'LL BE OLD AND YOUR LIFE WILL BE ALMOST OVER
LIVE YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW U HAVE OVER 12 YEARS TO HAVE A CHILD LEFT A HEALTHY ONE
SO WHATS THE RUSH
U GUYS NEED TO SET DOWN IN GET A PLAN TOGETHER I MEAN IF U HAVE NO JOB A BABY WILL ONLY CREATE MORE STRESS
U WANT INSURANCE OF ALL KIND BEFORE U BRING A CHILD IN THIS WORLD UNLESS U ARE NEGATIVELY PLANNING TO LIVE OF WELFARE
THATS NOT A PREPARED RESPONSIBLE PARENT WHEN U AN GET IT TOGETHER BEFORE IT COMES
THINK ABOUT IT
IF IT AINT HAPPENED YET IT AINT MENT TO BE RIGHT NOW
CONSIDER IT A SECOND CHANCE TO GET IT RIGHT
GET A JOB AND INSURANCE
AND A PLAN
GOOD LUCK ON PRIORITIZING!!
GOD BLESS
2006-10-08 22:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all spell ck is a good thing.
You don't say how old you are. There may be something else medically wrong with you if sex hurts. you said you don't have insurance, are there any free clinics around you? Check out the phone book. Have you tired to apply for state medical coverage. you may qualify. Doesn't hurt to apply. Remember if you do get pregnant there is a 50/50 chance you will have a boy.
2006-10-08 22:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mustang 95 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear it sounds like to me you both need to get somethings under contol BEFORE baby .. You dont enjoy sex why? is you marriage that good really ?
I am sure are other things as well . Also not having insurance isnt fair to the baby or us paying our taxes .. You sound sad and depressed not happy with life
Wait a yr get a good job then see
2006-10-08 22:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can get an artificial sperm from the doctor, but with the insurance... sex is the only way i can think of. if you want a baby, then adopt.
2006-10-08 22:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Gale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get insurance first. babies are expensive before they are born. prenatal care and testing doesnt come cheap and neither is the birh or raising a child. get insurance and see a doctor
2006-10-08 22:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋