Finally got my man to tell me that he wants to be with me, and that he loves me (but he's married), should I wait to see what develops or break away?
2006-10-08 14:54:14 · 22 answers · asked by missing_something 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think u should break away, sorry. he just says love u with his mouth, but he never can give the promise and protect to u for a long life cause he got family. u will hurt urself and his wife n kids. if not, u wan a hide love??? never cannot be seen to ur family, friends and other??? u love someone may share ur happiness to all, right??? but now u cannot, cause other people will think u as a worth women.
2006-10-08 19:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by ying 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a clue - if he's married to someone else, he's not YOUR man.
And if your previous questions are any indication, you've been "waiting to see what develops" for what, five years?
If you're happy being second-best and can accept that the odds of him ever actually being with just you are next to nil, go ahead and sell yourself short and settle for the crumbs that the mistress gets.
Otherwise, get some self-respect and go find someone who is actually available. Five years is enough of your life wasted.
And you are seriously screwing up the lives of your two children that you already have by this man. Even if YOU want to continue being the mistress with half a relationship, THEY deserve better.
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2006-10-08 22:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. It's never a good idea to get involved with a married man. You will forever feel guilty for destroying his marriage if it should end. You can always hook up with him again after he gets a divorce. If he loves you, then he will do the right thing and wait until he is divorced to have a relationship with you.
2006-10-09 01:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going to develop when he's married? Break away!!
2006-10-08 22:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run.....run very fast .... don't look back. If he's a married man and he's cheating on his wife with you, then you are scum. Don't ever put yourself in this situation where your taking away another person's husband. He says that he LOVES you,,,, or is it what your doing for him?? If he was worth having then he would be honest and sincere. He is not sincere because he is with someone else and he is telling you, what you want to hear.
2006-10-08 22:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who is married? You do know that you could never trust him. If he cheated on his wife, what makes you so special. Do you really think that he wont cheat on you? If you continue to keep seeing him.....you have a one way ticket to hell. I hate women like you....your nothing but a home wrecker. I hope you get what you deserve.
2006-10-08 22:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for what? If he was coming to you he would be there NOW!
Why are you trying to seduce a married man anyway?
That's just very wrong :(
2006-10-08 22:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man???????? are u that stupid????? honestly???? how can u call him your man lol.. He has a wife, HE'S HER MAN , geeze.. and why would u want to be with a man that is capable of cheating on his wife?? u think ur that damn special? lol.. please.. he once felt the same feelings he's feeling for u , for her, if not stronger, yet u think he'd be faithful to u? WAIT HE"S NOT FAITHFUL TO U CAUSE HES CHEATING ON U ALREADY WITH HIS WIFE LOL.. grow the hell up, and find a man that isnt TAKEN that u can actually call YOUR OWN.. geeze..
P.S. your nic is fitting cause your Definately Missing Something.. A FEW DAMN SCREWS
2006-10-08 22:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to have him tell you or better yet what i see is that you demanded he tell you that he wnats to be with you and that he loves you and now you want him to oeave his wife for you?????? That is so wrong. Just remember what goes around comes around and you will get your do.
2006-10-08 21:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Karen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break away- you shouldn't be breaking up a marriage to begin with.
2006-10-08 22:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋