She has sent letters to my family telling them I am unstable, a bad roll model for my niece, and that I am trying to break up her family. She sent another message to my mother filled with angry statements about me. We had a disagreement lastThanksgiving. I thought it was resolved...but she continues to be very angry bringing up everything she can think of she considers a problem about me. She shares it with everyone in my family. In one message she told me to LEAVE THEM ALONE and not to have any contact with them. They (my brother and sister-in-law) have moved to another country for work... I didn't even get to see my brother before he left. The anger continues via email. She will not allow my brother to talk to me. All of this hurts me. What should I do?
There have been long periods of time, in the past, when she has been angry with my parents or my other brother and sister-in-law.
2006-10-08 14:53:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your sister-in-law is acting selfish and jealous. Don't talk to her any more, and don't let her come in between you and your family. Talk to your mother and other family members in private and set the record straight.
You can try sending a snail-mail letter to your brother and tell him that you miss him, and you would appreciate him remaining in contact with you if he can - unless you believe your sister-in-law goes so far as to read his mail.
2006-10-08 14:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. It just sounds like this gal is full of misplaced anger.
It is a difficult situation and sounds like she wants your brother to cut off all contact with his side of the family. She must be a control freak and mentally unstable. But, your brother must have found something endearing about this gal to have married her.
I don't really think there is much you can do. I think it's up to your brother to put her in her place. If he doesn't hve the "cajones" or will to do this, as unfortunate as it sounds, I don't see what you can possibly do.
The only thing I can think of is to write her a warm and cordial letter telling her how you feel and that you are sorry for whatever happened last Thanksgiving, but you thought that amends had already been made and that it was all in the past.
Some people are just very controlling and find fault in everybody. Another possibility is that she doesn't want to share your brother with the in-laws. Good luck to you.
2006-10-08 22:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a ******* *****! You did not say what your family`s reaction to all of this is. Are they with her or with you? Why doesn`t your brother speak up, has he no opinion at all?
As to the question of what to do about your sister-in-law...tell her to **** off.
2006-10-08 21:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh. thats gotta suck. talk to ur family about it, tell them that its all lies, and then say something like, you would believe HER over ME??
2006-10-08 21:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋