2006-10-08 14:53:03 · 13 answers · asked by drflick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh!...its happens!!...they find it easier for some wierd reason.....maybe its because its a girl thing!!...or do you scream at her when she talks??....find it silly! or 'women!!!' or r u busy doing something else while lending an ear??
Hold her close to you and look at her AND LISTEN! She will talk to you. Also do respond to her.....it needs to be a conversation and not a talk to the walls! All the best!
2006-10-08 15:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by megh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rofl, dont panic !!! we girls have to have our girl talk... we know that our friends will understand what we are saying without drawing pictures... we know you guys, well, some of you, really try, but some things you just cant understand, no matter what we say or how we say it.... so let her talk to her friends, she will come to you and talk about the important stuff !!!! just ask how her day went, and if she says ok or fine or some such thing, a kiss and a hug go a long, long way to tell her you are there and are willing to listen.... God bless
2006-10-08 15:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends understand her more than you do. Women like to talk over things. Men confuse that as a veiled request to help them with a problem. We try to fix it when all we really need to do is sit and listen.
2006-10-08 17:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you listen when she does try to talk to you? Do you? I ask because my ex husband use to get upset with me over the same thing, but he never listened to me when I was talking. He would act like he was listening but he wasn't. Slowy I stopped talking to him and went to my friends.
2006-10-08 18:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never understand your wife until you talk to her. Just go to her and have a talk.
2006-10-08 15:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman talks more to her friends then her man it is usually because her man don't listen and make her feel understood. Try LISTENING, don't try to solve her problems unless she asks you to.
2006-10-08 15:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a gap in communication styles between she and yourself, and she can communicate with them about things you don't like to talk about.
2006-10-08 14:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her more than usual so that she will feel free to open up to you more. She may feel as though what she has to say won't interest you.
2006-10-08 15:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she does?
would u listen if she told you why? some guys dont......
also i myself find it easier to ask my friends for advice and **** before talking to my man
2006-10-08 15:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Nikki*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, and what are you doing ? Oh, your talking to your PC friends !
2006-10-08 15:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋