her shirt off! When I came back, she was in her bra! Thank God my hubby wasn't there. Is this as weird as it seems? She said she was hot, but how hot can a human being be?! I just shook my head, but what should I have said? Should I forget about it? She does other things that are very odd to me. But she's a nice person and good hearted I think. What to do?
2006-10-08 14:52:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She was writing you a message...open that chapter in your life and "GO FOR IT"
She was Hot Alright...Hot for you...
*Sounds like she just wanted a little "biscuits and gravy" for lunch
2006-10-08 14:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly she probably is gay and likes you and that's the only reason she's being cool with u but if ur not into that then the best thing to do is let her know in a polite way the next time she does something odd like that.You might end up losing her as a friend anyways if that's the case but it's better to be upfront with her and let her know it makes u uncomfortable and ur hubby would flip he thought anything was going on between u guys.If she's just one of those chicks who are really into being naked all the time and stuff then se'll just have to learn to respect ur wishes or keep it moving.
2006-10-08 22:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer: I think your strange friend needs to see a professional mental health therapist because this is not normal adult behavior. Unless she was coming on to you in some way.
If she does more strange things you may want to say something immediately that indicates YOUR discomfort. You say she has a "good heart and is nice". Okay, would a person with a good heart, who is nice, continue to make their friend so uncomfortable? When you speak to her about her behavior you will be helping her. If she gets upset or thinks you are up tight, then you might want to reconsider your friendship with her.
Good luck. Hope this helps.
2006-10-08 22:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how hot it is, I have never had a friend take off thier shirt. Tell her that you would perfer her to wear clothes in your home and if she is hot, give her an ice water or turn up the AC.
2006-10-08 21:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is so easy to get, and hey why freak out unless you dont feel anything for her and you dont really like her, you dont have a problem
nevermind that woman tell her if youre not in to her to stop, tell her to respect herself, if you think she is hot, you are really really in a different phase right now be careful, its just a call of nature, dont give in
and that woman is just tempting you, maybe someone made her do that to test you, maybe even your hubby did that so that she will know if you are loyal, be careful
2006-10-08 21:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have just told her to put her shirt back on and to warn you next time she wants to get naked in your house. if you think shes a good person then she probably is. whenever she does odd things say something about it if it makes u uncomfortable. u dont have to be mean, just make a joke of it and she'll get tht picture.
2006-10-08 21:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by paradisein757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur friend is Gay & wants a relationship w/u. The next time u see her, tell her, in a very nice & gentle way, that u don't want a relationship w/ her, but u would like to remain friends if she wants to, & can handle it.
2006-10-08 22:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was hot but it sounds weird that she took her shirt off
2006-10-08 21:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by musicfan799 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let her know how you feel, especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable. you have to set boundaries with people, and some people just don't know whats appropriate and whats not. Let the little odd things go, unless they really bother you.
2006-10-08 21:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend wants to more than friends with you..
either you tell her up front you dont go that way or you do some fun experiencing...
2006-10-08 21:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋