I'm white, and he is Mexican.
2006-10-08 14:46:25 · 33 answers · asked by elena73848 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you love him? If yes does it matter what race he is?
2006-10-08 14:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your "white" and he's "Mexican" your not from different races like everyone else has been saying. Lets get this straight, Mexicans are considered "white" when categorizing under races. They are in fact a different ethnicity or culture, but they do remain "white." So you'd marry into the same race. I wouldn't do it if I were you though because like others said it shouldn't be an issue unless your family is KKK or something like the matter. Then it would be complicated and you'd have to move far away.
2006-10-08 15:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by gumby and pokey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believed it was a good idea, you might not have asked. You need to get the race / culture thing out your head and think of the individual. You are considering marrying him, but it sounds like you don't know who he is if you think that his being Mexican will somehow change things.
2006-10-08 14:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea or a bad idea, but it is a complicated situation. Any sort of interracial dating can pose additional problems in any relationship, so I always advise to make sure the connection is strong enough to endure it. I must also say that many people find love and experiences that they would have never known outside their own culture. So absolutely date whatever race, just be prepared of some of societies issues that may come with it.
2006-10-08 14:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by okitty_kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI!
I think the best thing to do when you date inter-culture is to talk to others who have married and see how thing work. It can be tough to mix cultures, depends on each person. Good LUck!
2006-10-08 15:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing with marrying another race.. im mexican and I like black guys and mexican guys.
2006-10-08 14:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by aLl I WaNtEd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, the only reason he wants to marry you is to import his family into this country. Marry a good ole' American. There are many I am sure you can find. Lose the Mexican.
2006-10-08 14:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Does race really matter? If he loves you and treats you like a lady then go for it . However if you gotta ask then maybe you are unsure of yourself.
2006-10-08 14:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by margie c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have married one dated many some are great but prepare for an overwhelming family... most hispanics have large families and they are frequent visitors... Good Luck
2006-10-08 14:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by myspace junkie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. The fact that you are even asking this question is a good sign you have racist tendencies. Your interest would wane... Look elsewhere dear.
2006-10-08 15:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Are you really asking this? I would say that if yur asking this question then youu shouldn't marry him because it obviously bothers you. Honestly it wuldn't bother the avarage person!
2006-10-08 14:49:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋