WTF?! What should i do?

Question

I went with this girl to homecoming and basically she is a loser and im not. i did it cuz i felt bad and didnt want to b shallow. All her friends really like me and stuff. All my friends really hate her allways diss her and i end up defending her. Today, her friends told me that she talsk **** behind my back and they have no idea why she hates me. Thye keep telling her that im the best she is ever going to get. By the way, she is fat and really stupid, academically, and street smartness wise. Im an honor student and captain of the school swim team. Ok, so then i have no idea why she hates me so much. All i ever did was being really nice to her. When she was cold i offered her my jacked and was really sweet, helped her with things, and now i get this. Im really confused. All her friends think that she is really retarded for doing this. WHat went wrong? Its not like i like her or anything, its just that i dont like ppl talkg **** about me

All that i have ever done is be really nice to her. Her friends think hughly of me all the time and dont understand her behavior themselves. I said all those bad stuff above, cuz i exploded. I feel unappreciated and lied to the whole time. By what i hear she says, she really dislikes me for some reason. BTW, i have a reputation for being really nice in my school and this is really pushing it

Answer 1

Don't make this about yourself. You make everything about you. ou felt "unappreciated the whole time"? what about her? did you ever think of that? She must've found out what you reallly think about her, and now she's trying to get you back. Don't be so shallow next time. And learn to spell, Mr. Honors student.

Answer 2

It sounds as if this is all about you - you mentioned how nice you are, how popular you are, how your "the best thing she'll ever get". It's all pretty arrogant - and no matter how true the other stuff might be - arrogance is ugly. If you think she's fat and stupid, why'd you date her? If you don't like her then why do you care what she's telling people. If your as great as you say - then those that really know you won't pay any attention to what she says, your greatness will shine through. SHe doesn't hate you - she hates the arrogance.

Answer 3

have you ever seen she is all that.where the boy's made a deal with there friends ok. she may feel like that. like you use her or trying to hurt her feeling or make a joke out of her.how often do a nice looking boy ask a fat gril out think about it. what would you do if you were in her shoes.talk to her an se what she say .you mit of been to nice to her or thata the frist time a fine boy ak her out .try to talk to her thats the only way you will find out what happen. good luck.

Answer 4

i think maybe she has figured out that u only went to the homecoming with her because u feel sorry for her. maybe u deserve it. Or maybe those friends u have are trying to keep u from making a good friend. i think u should apologize to her and explain to her that what is going on and maybe she might forgive u. be mature about the situation

Answer 5

Maybe she's angry because she thought that by taking her to the homecoming you really thought of her as a friend, not a "fat, stupid, loser" as you've quoted. She probably felt like you used her to make yourself look good.

Answer 6

i am sorry. maybe if shes a total loser she is not used to having a bf...so then she doesnt kno how to act and. if all her friends like u...maybe they are just saying she talks **** because they want u to dump her for one of them. i would tt her about it and if she denies it then trust her. its up to u
hope this helps!!

Answer 7

haha