Ok there is this girl that I like and really care about. I haven't seen or spoken to her in a while. I really want to hear from her but I'm scared to make contact even I shouldn't be right. I mean I have nothing to lose right? I honestly don't know what to do. I was thinking about email since I don't know when it is a good time to call.
2006-10-08 14:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Just Wondering 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You could drop her a very casual email. Say..........hey how are you? havent seen you in awhile........drop me a line and lets get together soon.
Thats all you have to say. Hopefully she will write back and give you an indication as to when you could call or she will invite you somewhere.
good luck
2006-10-08 14:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh. Lover boy. I would say email her and wait for her to respond, but...some girls like guys who call them and not communicate via electronically. Best way is if she's in school with you, try and talk to her between passing time and start off that way, then you can try emailing / instant messaging (IM is the best way to go) and then maybe you can call her. Then...if you get pass that, try with the old mail-in-letter or something nice to show her you care. Goodluck!!!
2006-10-08 21:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it.
like you said, you have nothing to lose. and it will probably bring a smile to her face since she hasn't heard from you in a while.
then, after a few exchanges of emails, you can ask her if it's alright to call...just say something like "yeah, well i wanted to call but didn't want to catch you at a bad time" and she just might say "oh you should have"..then BINGO there's your green light to call.
good luck
2006-10-08 21:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by mande 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually have anything to say to her, call her; email is for pansies and businessmen. She can ignore/delay emails and send polished responses that are ultimately unfulfilling. You want real-time contact. Like you said, what have you got to lose?
2006-10-08 21:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by kickapookidonthefritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Accidently" e-mail her.
Write something like this...
Frank,
(Use a name that starts with the same letter as hers so that it could have really been a mistake...like you accidently clicked on Frank instead of Francesca)
Can you please contact me ASAP regarding the urgent matter at work/school?
Thanks!
~Joe
Then she will e-mail you back and tell you that you accidently sent it to her. Thank her and tell her how great it is to hear from her...(maybe say that it was probably subliminal that you mailed her) Continue your correspondance from there.
When you get married you can confess to the fake e-mail and it will be really romantic.
2006-10-08 21:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rackjack 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have any thing to lose if you call her either. If you email her and she doesn't respond then what will you do??? Just be a
man, call her and either way you will know. If a man was interested in me I would hope he would have the guts to call me.
2006-10-08 21:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely e-mail her, that way if she doesn't have the time to talk on the phone if you were to call she can write an e-mail at her own convience. Good Luck!
2006-10-08 21:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email her,cuz callin her will catch her off gaurd more than emailin her,unless she dosnt check her email
2006-10-08 21:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋