Do you think I will ever feel happy again?

Question

If you read my other questions please tell me if you think I will ever feel happy again. I am to the point of giving up I don't leave my house unless I must and I would rather talk to people on the computer than in person or onthe phone because they will never meet me. Like I said I have been to doctors and said I will always be tramatised.

Answer 1

I think that u could be happy again if u can stop worrying bout white chics are sexiier, please start to regain your self-confidence and start to put some trust in your husband.

Marriage and living together need alot of trust, compromise, understanding and communication between two person.

Go out and make some friends. Try to have a healthy social life. It is unhealthy to talk to the person in the computer. There are still lots of good ppl out there that u can trust and share your feelings to / with. Have faiths.

If this still can't make u happy, pls think of your children. I bet your children want their mommy to be cheerful and want to grow up in a happy and warmth environment. Pls don't let your emotions ruin everything that u owned rite now.

Good luck.

Answer 2

i dont know what really happened you on why you are traumatized
but yes you can feel happy again, but its totally dependent on you, its your choice if you want to be happy
i felt that way at one point in my life, i attempted suicide, i was not happy, was not lonely, im not angry i completely just felt empty, the food i ate they tasted like wood, i had no emotions , i cant even laugh at films or sitcoms i am watching, i was a complete mess, i did not even know what was my problem. i was so lost, but it ended, i dont know how, maybe because i got more active in school, and that i tried to communicate with others, i started writing on my journal. all my feelings and my whereabouts, i read hundreds of books especially the alchemist and veronika decided to die by paulo coelho. you will see and know that you are not alone. and with that knowledge try to see that whatever you have experienced your life is not the worst scenario there is in the world, if you will watch other people's lives you will see you are still blessed, use that knowledge
you can be happy if you choose to be happy right now not tomorrow, today, if you dont want to choose that path , you might at well be lonely forever, but you deserve to be happy, choose happiness
nevermind what happened to you past is past let it not define you, become new!!!!

Answer 3

I never read your other questions but I can tell you this, you need to get on anti-depressants. Whatever the issue is, you need to remember how good you are, and all the things that make you special - THOSE are the things that matter!!!! Definately try to get some counseling (talk therapy), I promise, you CAN and WILL feel happy again. It lies within yourself - no one else can bring you happiness - you must bring it on yourself (and it;s ok to get some help!)

Answer 4

Its a matter of choice. You can choose to be happy or allow the past to ruin your future. I am not saying you have not gone through a lot but you need to allow yourself to get better and be happy. Take steps in the direction of happiness, associate yourself with people who support you and love you. Change your patterns of behavior and tell yourself each day- It's going to be A GOOD DAY and make it so. I'm not saying you can do it in one day but you can certainly get better one day at a time. God bless you and best of luck!

Answer 5

of course you will feel happy again....you have to look inside yourself...because there inside of you awaits a beautiful person you have so much inner strength that you are not reaching for....and without that strength you willl eventually fall apart....and i know thats not what you want am i right?? you know that you deserve to be happy...so why not start working on that now... sweetheart and i promise you will wake up a much happier person in the morning....and just remember that you are not the only person going through this....because i know you feel alone ....well guess what?? your gonna be okay...reach for your strength....good luck sweeti!

Answer 6

honestly haven't got a clue to the other question but to be blunt no one will be able to tell you if you're going to be happy again cause we can't make you to be a happy person unless you choose to be happy. you are responsible and live your life not us for you and at the end who are we to you to determine that for you? it's your own will power to stay happy or not...all is about ourselves that's the reason why we can't change this world but you can change yourself to live and survive in this world!

Answer 7

Don't give up on your happiness. You control your future and you. You are extremely successful just by reaching out and asking for help. You are wonderful. Just keep reaching, smiling, and going for your goal. You can get there. No matter what.

Answer 8

only thing t fear is fear it self.. i felt the way u did before..heck i feel like dat alot but then again i never reall went outside unless it was for an occassion or school. i think you should take things a step at a time. try to do things outside

Answer 9

we dident read your, questions but it sounds like your in dire straights hons, and getting out is the key thing hey the world is changing so fast, and you could be part of itt hons, so get moving for gods sake lets go!

Answer 10

There are many people who would make fun of the prospect of changing their destinies. This is due to the fact that it believes that no one gets more that exactly what is written in his destiny.