we've been 2gether for 2 yrs. I am so sad I can barely function. my head is killing me. I dont even want to go to work- its kind of a mutual thing. he still says he loves me but we fight too much.
2006-10-08 14:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DAMN that hits close to home bc my and my ex girlfriend are doing the same thing right now as in we broke up yesterday ask your self do you love him?? if so and does he truly love you work things out try dating from a distance then bring it in closer ok i want to work it out with mine but i dont know ask your self do you think that things can get better if so try it bc if you can work them out then that might be the best thing good luck and i am feeling you
2006-10-08 14:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,me and my daughter father just seperated after 12 yrs 2gether.I have moved on and so has he.We share a 10 year old 2gether.I had to move from Va,BeachVa to make sure I would'nt run back to him.I moved back home to Wash,DC.It's better for me that way.We never argued or anything but he was'nt a good provider.I really believed that he did the best that he knew how to do but his best just was'nt good enough for me.I know it sounds cruel but when you are getting eviction notes an cut off payments it takes a toll on you,especially when he does'nt say anything to you about the bills being backed up and you're thinking everyhting is o.k.I still love him of course but it's like he's showing his true side since he's been with this girl with 3 boys that don't even belong to him.Our daughter will call to talk to him and she will put the phone down and won't even put her dad on the phone stupid B I T C H!So your ex probably do still love you like I know my daughter father still loves me sometimes people just need there space.And sometimes you get along better when you're apart.I know you might not want to hear that but it's true.I wish you luck,it's hard I went through the little headache thing too.And wanting to do something not to hurt him but to get under his skin but time heals all things.You will be fine.Just give it some time.
2006-10-08 14:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, it will get easier. The hardest part is over...you need to remember to just breathe. That's all....breathe. The rest will come with time. Soon you will be sick of being sad and depressed and you will start noticing things that make you smile. Then before you know it, without all that negative stuff you had with your ex you will be happier and healthier than ever before. Then and only then will you be able to focus on making yourself the best you've ever been in your whole life.
2006-10-08 15:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by pamperedstylist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who doesn't go through the depressing time when a relationship turns sour and goes wrong would be so in human. but again it's not end of the world when a relationship fails at least know you know earlier both of you are not for each other rather than continue to suffer through this relationship and at the end if both of you bear children it might make them suffer too. so long we realise and learn where when wrong in the relationship and be better from there to build a good relationship in the future although there's no 100% perfection in it cause all of us are just human.
2006-10-09 10:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this time in your life SUCKS! and it takes ALOT of support from yourself internally, and maybe close family or friends.. and time of course. I hurt SOO bad when i broke up with my first love of 3 yrs. You're not alone. But, if you can, why don't you work it out? Go to a counselour - or take a break and see how he acts- if he loves you- he'll stay in touch and try to be in your life like he was when you were together.. if not- he might not be as mature/in love as you.. i'm sorry for your heartbreak! Either way- don't lose reality with your responsibilities, goals, and morals!
2006-10-08 14:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you not trying to make it work...then move on, no other way for me to tell you....however you can't stop living your life....because of the simple fact that you are no longer with that person....and yes it hurts like hell who ever said it was easy going through a break up....when things aren't good for us we must get rid of it...so we can focus on ourselves and live a wonderful healthy life....you may very well still love each other...but when you love some one you must let them go...if it's meant they'll come back....good luck sweetheart!
2006-10-08 14:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, believe it or not sadness is a universal human emotion and we all feel it some time. I will not bore you with platitudes but you need to give it time to heal.
2006-10-08 14:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that woman give there all in there relationship and it hurts us ten times more them men . love is so confusion its all a emotional thing its like grief it takes time sometimes longer then others
2006-10-08 14:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by sweetanloveable14u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I always get depressed when going threw a break-up.So just go with the flow.
2006-10-08 14:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by rascal9993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure we all get that way.But you need to suck it up and move on with your life.You won't feel that way for long.
2006-10-08 14:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋