I want kid my fiance dont and he has one from previous married isn't it only fair for having one with me?

Question

But everytime I sat down with him and talk about it he would just shift the topic to different story or he would interfere me with something else. One thing I believe that he doesnt seem to be interested of having another one because he has a 5 years old kid from previous marriage and he is with us every weekend. We been together for almost 2 year now, And I am not getting any younger. Isn't is only fair for him to atleast giving me one? Should I leave or should I stay? We have been talking about getting marry, but I have put it on hold 'cuz I dont want to marry then leave because of the subject of not having a kid with him.
Please serious answer only.

Answer 1

its not a matter of whats fair !
if he dosent want any more kids , then you have got to decide if you can accept this .
if not than youve got to move on and find some one that wants the same things in life as you do .

Answer 2

Having a kid shouldn't ever be a choice to be fair. If he agrees to it just because you want a child so bad, I promise you the odds are great that you will have a child in a bad situation. Sometimes people have different goals and dreams. If it is something that you both feel strongly different on, then maybe you need to consider that your future paths aren't the same and let go of the relationship. Only you knows what you are willing to compromise on to have this relationship, but please ensure that any agreeance of a child is never on a being fair scale.

Answer 3

Fair? Fair? Let me ask you this, " Would it be FAIR to have a child with someone who doesnt want one?" Your best bet would be to get out of this relationship and find someone who wants the same things you do. This guy does not have the same goals as you to stay is only going to make you both miserable in the long run.