I just wanna be able to open up to people more about my feelings instead of being so intoverted all the time. I also don't want people to think I'm boring when I don't talk. And be able to talk to the guy I like.
2006-10-08 14:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know exactly how you feel.If you really want to be a more outgoing person, and its really not in your character to be an outgoing person, surround yourself with people who are more like this. As for the boy, you have to realize that most boys don't go for a girl who is shy, COME OUT OF THAT SHELL GIRL!!!!! (e-mail me and tell me how it goes. bubblee08@yahoo.com)
2006-10-08 14:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by megan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smiling is the first step. Eye contact is very important as well. I used to be very shy until I moved around a lot. The way I got over my "fear of people" was not caring what anybody thought of me. I realized that everybody is different, and if I don't talk to other people, then I won't know what's going on in life. You miss out on a lot of things when you're shy, so take the first step towards being yourself. Give yourself time. You have to love yourself before other people can love you. Good luck!!
2006-10-08 21:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was just like you, in fact I joined alot of school clubs even if I was shy. I did things to change my shyness. It eventually sank into my head and now I can ask for directions without trembling.
2006-10-08 21:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by AUCT!ON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's really hard, but you have to make yourself let go and be yourself. After a few minutes, you'll calm down and feel great. It just takes practice.
2006-10-08 21:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by puma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start with baby steps. Smile at friendly looking people, say hi, ask someone to borrow their notes.
2006-10-08 21:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kyra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...i went through that transformation in 6th grade......all u gotta do is get in sum kinda screaming match, or a fist fight, or sumthing that ppl will notice...it duznt have to be bad or anything...its just that fights (fake or otherwise) will get ppl to notice u.....just be urself
as for the guy....walk up to him, straight up say "hey wuts up?" start a convo, and keep it goin..at least until u have to go to class or sumthing like that
2006-10-08 21:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♣BrownEyedBeauty♣ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have the same problem, except there is nothing that can help me not be shy cause ive already tried it all....if you find something, tell me
2006-10-08 21:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk more about interesting stuff.
2006-10-08 23:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋