I used to have a relationship with this girl for three years.. we met in geneva where she studied university for 2 and a half years we were together for 1and a half year in geneva and then she went back to her country but we countinued seeing eachother i used to fly to see her and used to go whenever she left her country i used to go with her and spend time together. this summer on may i told her that is hard and may be its better if we brake up but than i changed my mind and we didn t . few days later we had a fight and we didn t talk for one week .. i call her and then she tells me that its better if we brake up .. so thats what happened ...i work and live in geneva ... her brother comes on september to study in the same university as where she used to .. and i meet him and he told me about her new boyfriend back home that they have been dating for 4 months now.. my question is can i win her back... excuse me for my english ... I am russian
2006-10-08 14:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by george d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's very possible. You've been together for a longer period than she and her current boyfriend. It's likely that she feels a greater connection with you than she does with him.
You say that you were the first to break off the relationship. Maybe her decision not to get back together was triggered by a little bitterness on her part. By communicating with her first as a friend and regaining her trust you may get to a point in your friendship where you can express your desire to get back together. Be sincere, gentle and understanding and you may very well become a couple once more.
Take care and good luck :).
2006-10-08 14:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible if you strongly believe it is.. It'll be definitely hard but it's possible. Another problem is the long distance.. for you to be in a long-distance relationship, you need to be very strong-willed. Clearly, it was a major factor in your break-up. Also, you don't just go changing your mind about breaking up, it made her feel insecure. What you should do about it now, is to find your way to her and literally sweep her off her feet and tell her how much you love her and how much of a fool you were letting her go and that you want her back desperately. SHe'll most likely tell you that she can't because she has a boyfriend but be persistent.. If she still is adamant, give her time and call her frequently, one day she'll give in.
Good luck!
2006-10-08 14:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-01-28 11:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are her new relationship will fail. Even 50% of marriages fail. Take comfort in this and move on. You might not believe it now but you will laugh at yourself for even asking this question this time next year. Get to the gym. 6 months from now you could bump into her. Make sure she sees what she lost.
2006-10-08 14:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by james m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon you should have another chance at asking her out again. i know what its like to be in love, and im a girl, so i know what girls want. first- you have to really be genuine. if your feelings aree soo strong for her, then you gotta ask her out again, but just wait until the relationship with the other guy is over, and trust me, it will be over in the next week or so. theres your chance to win her back. buy her gifts at first like roses, chocolate, write her poems and rhymes, get a guitar out and sing her a song, and tell her how you feel. by doing this you are getting her to notice you again and reviving what it was like when you dated her. then when she takes you back, be romantic and take her out to places that are beautiful like out to walks on the beach, just you and her, or to the highest possible mountain you can drive on and you and her go up there to look at all the beautifull lights from the city. just as long as you wait before the other relationship os over ok, dont do it too soon, or she'll think the reason why you asked her out again is because your jealous, which you arent but you really like her. ok. honestly, give that a shot.
2006-10-08 14:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear your story, however it is never a good idea to move backwards, life is for moving forward, once a couple split up things can never be the same, a re-union would just not work out. Best wishes.
2006-10-08 19:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a lot like my ex husband.
When she was with you , you didn't want her. You thought it better if you broke up,
Now she has another boy friend you want her back.
I think you should just leave her and her boy friend alone. If you loved each other you would still be together.
2006-10-08 14:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I think it would be really hard to have a relationship so far apart. Since you guys are already apart now and shes with another guy, let her go and find another.
2006-10-08 14:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Balaclava Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's possible,just get her brother 2 info u on how she feels about u.
2006-10-08 14:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by bootylicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She moved on, when you dumped her she had this guy on stand by, He took your place that quick. Now you have to be a man and accept the conscquences.
2006-10-08 15:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by usamedic420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋