and he has about had it. im cheating on him with my ex. me and my bf have been going out for a little over 6 months and i really do love him . its just that when my ex comes into the picture after 9 months of dating him i get feelings for him all over..please someone help me figure out a way to get rid of my ex and stay with my bf
2006-10-08 14:11:26 · 24 answers · asked by Stephanie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i've been in your situation where i did the cheating, if u do get the chance to get back w/ ur bf u gotta prove it to him that you do love him -
2006-10-08 14:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame your boyfriend. I would have left a long time ago (the first time you cheated).
Only you can make the decision to stop messing around with your ex. No one can do it for you. If you have such a lack of self-control and moral integrity, I suggest you break up with your bf and sleep around to your heart's content. You're not ready for a relationship.
2006-10-08 14:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a re son why your old bf are an EX so an EX is an EX leave it that way. if you don't won't the new bf then tell him. are let him go so some other girl will get her wish okay!!!!!!
2006-10-08 14:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I am for your BF. He should dump you. What if he was cheating on YOU with HIS ex? Sorry, all cheaters have no excuse that is good enough to ask help for. You should totally cut off your ex, and BEG forgiveness from your bf.
2006-10-08 14:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break up with both and take some time to figure out what you want, since you've cheated your current bf will no longer trust you and your relationship is probably over, your ex bf is using you and your allowing it, step away from both and get back to you and see what it is you want.
2006-10-08 14:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have cheated on him and he knows it, you have probably already blowed it. IF he is willing to give you another chance, tell the ex to take a hike, and mean it, and be faithful from now on. If not, you will lose him for sure. You said he has "about had it".
2006-10-08 14:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by harridan5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have enough love and respect not to cheat on him then its best you break up it's not fair to treat him this way. You obviously still have unfinished business with your ex you need to sort that out before you date anyone else.
2006-10-08 14:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have respect for yourself or your new boyfriend no one can give you help!
Your wrong period and 9 months means shyte for you to be crawling back into bed with him// your being played by him do you really thinks he wants you?? He might be trying to break you up in the first place to get even.
Damn girl wake up.. start acting like a young lady and treat people how you want to be treated or be used as a easy as in a hoe.. that your choice.. you can stop just by saying NO.. duh
2006-10-08 14:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to dump them both and take some time to figure out what you really want. It's not fair to the two of them to be caught in the middle of your deception and indecisiveness.
2006-10-08 14:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by miyazaki75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been cheating on your bf...than you really don't love him. if you did you couldn't do that to him.. maybe you should be with your ex... cause you have already proven that is where you heart really is!
2006-10-08 14:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Harmony22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋