I may be young, i may be inexperienced, but i did fall in love. We weren't together that long, but it was worth it. He broke up with me cause of personal reasons that i dont feel like explaining. He was like my bestfriend, we had fun together. But right now, i need to move on, and i need to get over it. but its hard. I just need words of encouragment. Nothing went horribly wrong in our relationship, and that's what hurts, because it was fun and i wouldnt have traded it for anything. I see him everyday, and i'm still friends with him, but each time i see him, my heart still skips a beat, and even when he signs onto AIM i get nervous. I thought I was getting over him, but it all came back to me. I just need encouraging words. I know i wont get back together with him. but its still making me think about him. and if anyone on yahoo asks me out or to email them to "hook up" you can forget about that.
2006-10-08 14:07:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are very smart for reaching out to others. Find other things to keep yourself busy -- do volunteer work, go out with friends, find someone to help. You are smart and you will soon find someone who is worthy of you. Look for someone with character, values and good morals. You will find him. God Bless!
2006-10-08 14:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i know how you feel because i have been there.
the best thing to do is block him out of your life! Delete his aim. Dont talk to him as a friend. Go out and have fun with your other friends.
I know this is a hard thing to do but while you are still talking to him, you wont get over him for a long time. Youll be curious about who hes seeing, what hes doing, itll just all hurt all the more.
Good luck honey, you sound lovely x
2006-10-08 21:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lula Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can say to you is that time will heal all wounds and it does get easier ... maybe being friends right now isn't the greatest idea and maybe seeing him and/or seeing that he's logged on won't help you heal either, i would take his name off you AIM and go a little out of the way not to see him ... you need to heal and take time to get over this.
2006-10-08 21:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna be hard to get over him. At least yall still kept your freiendship and thats what really matters
2006-10-08 21:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by trufolife04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋