whats the best way to get over your boyfriend??

Question

me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up..it was the hardest thing ever..we stopped haning out and we basically faded away from each other..i love him so muchh i dont no what to do..what makes it harded is that this girl who tried to break us up before is trying to be all over him..its soo hard i dont no what to do considering everything i do or any music i play reminds me of him..i want to get back togeather with him but its to late..someone help please!

yeah but he says he still loves me and that hell never love another girl like he loved me..when we talked about things and kinda sed to stop going out..he jsut kissed me..as soon as he did this i pushed him away and jsut started crying..he told me to treat my next boyfriend good and he told me hed alwyas watch out for me..its jsut so hard bc i try to tlak to him and i try to call him but when we talk it seems as if he ahs no intrest...idk what to do ima mess basically..btw the other girl had nothing to do wiht the break up..he doenst like her at all lol

Answer 1

Don't have boyfriends until you're in college. Boys aren't in love like girls are. It's just a sport to them. that's why a girl is just wasing her heart when she dates so young. No one ends up with their high school b/f anymore. It's nothing but heartache for the girls. If you really like a guy, be his friend. It lasts longer and there will actually be a chance it will be forever.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Oh, I'm so sorry. You sound like you have a real broken heart. It's so hard when someone we love doesn't love us back or want to be with us. It's really good that you can talk about it. Sharing those terrible feelings can really help and sometimes the more we talk about things, the better we can process how we feel.

Just remember, you are a unique, interesting, wonderful person. There's no one else like you and one day you'll meet a young man who sees that and appreciates you for who you are.

Now's a good time to focus on friends and hobbies or other interests. I promise that it'll get easier. And for awhile, if you do meet other boys that you like, think about just staying friends for awhile and getting to know each other that way. It's too easy to jump into another relationship when you aren't really over this one.

Answer 4

Hi,

Sorry for your break up.

I'll try to give you advise.

Firstly of all, do you know why your boyfriend want to break up with you ? if cause of that girl tht you talking about. So, the second thing is you have to see wht the girls have and you dont have ? maybe your boy friend get attractive with that..
But, still dont have so upset. World still spin around and show must go on.
Just show to your boy friend that the break up means nothing to you. Be more focus to others activities to improve yourself rather than think and cry about the break up. It's already the past. If you want to get him back, please improve yourself. Be more confident so you can attrack many boys around.
Some of World Fact "dont show to anyone you are being loss or dump, people will leave you". So, be strong and keep improvement.
You can try many different activities in school that can make you more famous...
And for sure I think your boy will be feel stupid to broke up with you.

Any advise need ... just ask....

Cheers!!
MS

Answer 5

I'm very sorry sweetheart. It is always hard when you love somebody that doesn't love you. Disregard everybody here that says that you are too young. The fact is, you have feelings for other people at any age. Unfortunately, you can never make somebody love you. The only thing you can really do is move on. But the good thing is that you will find that special someone that will treat you like the sweet princess you are. He will love you unconditionally and he will emotionally satisfy you the way your ex-boyfriend never will. Good luck.

Answer 6

I'm really sorry that things didn't work out between the two of you. I haven't quite dated a guy for 8 months, but my boyfriend of 3 months and I broke up and it kind of sucked, but not really bad. The best I can say is this: buy icecream, romance movies, and chocolate. I know that it sounds cheesy but it really works. Cry as much as you want, but then when you've run out of icecream and movies just stop crying. Leave it all behind then. Whenever your mind starts to wander to something about your ex just push past the thought and think of something else. I know that it seems hard, but in another couple of days/weeks/months it will be alot easier. Trust me♥

Answer 7

Well one thing I would pray to God for guidences and see what goes. Plus I would try to put him out of your mind. That girl is trying to make you jealous I would look the other way if you see her. Also I would do something with your life like take up a hobby or join some club and meet new people.Also you can check out local churches and see there is groups you can join that would be a new way to meet someone . If this guy loves you and you love him maybe he might come back to you. but if doesn;t then forget him. I will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 8

Dude u should just get a new one shed a few tears then move on that's what my gf did with her x and then she fell for me. He's not the only guy out there if it was meant to be then it would've lasted but that means there's someone else waiting for u out there. So sorry 'bout it though.

Answer 9

Me and my girlfriend of 1 year broke up just this summer. We still email each other and what not but it kind of happened like you and your boyfriend because we just drifted apart. I had a lot of trouble getting over her but I started to get out more, hang out with friends more often, and meet new people. It really helped me keep my mind off her when I had other people around me for me to care about. I don't know if that will help you our not but its just my input.

Answer 10

Find stuff that you like to do. Work out, go tanning, get a manicure-look HOT! It always made me feel better. Go out with your friends and just concentrate on YOU! Chances are that he will probably want you back when he sees you looking so happy with out him... you might not even want him back once you find out how happy you can be without him.